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Danielle cherished family, friends and life. She had her whole life planned
out; her husband, number of kids, two dogs and would be a dermatologist, a career
where she could help others but have time for her family.
Christi had just enrolled in college. She just began taking First Baptist Church
shuttles downtown every Thursday to befriend the homeless. Just chit chatting
with them and letting them know they had a friend. In her journals, she was
determined to turn her life around and she started by helping others. She volunteered
often for the M.U.S.T. Ministries to help set up their clothing shop for the
homeless and the children's center. She helped cooked their meals. She helped
do their laundry. She wanted to go into a field helping others. She would have
changed at least one person's life, for the better, when they thought there
was no more hope. She didn't show up last Thursday. She died.
In the months before she was killed, 21-year-old Anke Furber had been acting
scared and she seemed to know she was in danger. Several days after Furber's
charred remains were discovered in a small vineyard in Norcross, Anke's mom,
Ria, found a note in Anke's desk at home in Marietta. In it, Anke seemed to
foreshadow her own death. She wrote, "My parents would surely grieve the loss
of their wonderful daughter whose craziness would soon lead to her slaughter".
Ria isnt sure exactly when the note was written, but believes it was written
in a close time frame to the actual murder.
At 22 years old, Levi had goals and ambitions of being a business owner, a husband
and a father. He loved his family and friends with everything in him and would
do anything for you. His shyness and manners we're a shining attribute to who
he was. Unfortunately, Levi befriended someone who for nearly three years took
advantage of his kindness and when asked to leave his home, he killed him. If
he would have just walked out the door as asked, Levi would still be here today.
We'll never know all the wonderful things that Levi would have accomplished,
but we know he was a "Friend" till the end.
Ephraim was 21 yrs old when he prematurely transitioned to the other side. He
was a very warm hearted young man. And was always available to help friends
and family. As his cousin Ben said about him: "You can lay a 1,000. on the table
and know completely that Ephraim would have never taken it". He spent most of
his days at Antique World in Clarence , NY which was owned and operated by his
Uncle. That was my sons world. A world he will no longer be able to participate
in. He is sorely missed by his family and friends.
Mark suffered a brain injury at the age of 19 the night of a high school prom.
Mark died at the age of 25. Life was hard for Mark, he lived an aphasic life.
Mark struggled to relearn his alphabet and to speak again. Neuro rehab, drug
rehab, jails, institutions and death. Mark was disabled and a fighter all at
the same time. College, heavy equipment operator, volunteering were all part
of these six years. Mark loved kids and wished he had one. Due to the selfish
reasoning of his so called friends, Mark will never be able to achieve his dreams
that he fought so hard for. Mark's struggle is over !! PEACE..........
His friends describe him as a kind, warm hearted, full of energy, always smiling,
and a very silly young man. They also said that whenever Sean walked into a
room that he had the ability lighting up the room because he was full of life
and energy! He loved his dad, his mom, and his sister very much. He had a very
special bond with his great grandma Efford and his great aunt Charlene whom
also up in heaven with him. A warm hug from Sean was just another way that he
showed his affection to his family and friends
When Cayte was in the middle school she was on the track team, she was a cheerleader
for the Nor-Roc Vikings, she was on a soccer team, and she loved attending the
dances at the Sad Cafe. When she went to high school, all of those activities
stopped. The sad reason was because she was too old. All the kids have, once
they reach high school, are the woods and the homes of friends when the parents
are at work. If she had activities to do after school when she went to high
school, maybe this wouldn't have happened.
From her birth to her passing Katty touched so many lives. Not only did her
family have the joy of watching her grow from a 6 pound baby girl to a beautiful
young woman, but so many others did as well. The lives she touched are too many
to fathom. Her beauty and grace preceded her where ever she went. Her heart
was made of fine gold and she cared for others always before herself. She was
not just special to all of us but to the Lord who saw fit to call her home at
such a young age. Her mansion was ready! When we think of Katty now we all can
be at peace because we know she is with her Lord, never to face this harsh world
we live in day to day. She is with us always when we remember her smile, her
touch, and her kind words. We all had the pleasure of being touched by an ANGEL!
We want our son's name to be Remembered and to bring hope and joy out of something
that has been the darkest and heartbreaking days of our families life. JP was
very out spoken and we have decided to be that way on this site and to be his
voice about the drug companies and the public official's that sit back and do
nothing. If we could save one person from what our family had to go Through
and is still going Through, it would be all worth it We will not stop until
the truth gets out. We want his memory to live on.
Time has gone by so quickly and it seems like we haven't seen your face in forever.
Our hearts are broken, our tears flow so freely and our souls feel empty. Michael,
you left us with so many happy memories but the memories can never take your
place. We know you and your uncle Sam are saving a place for those who cherished
you the most.
Two weeks before he died, Chuck called me on the phone. He was excited to tell
me he was joining the National Guard. He had begun to think about being a History
Teacher. He planned to attend school after basic training. He also mentioned
a new girlfriend. He was pretty crazy about her but wanted to give things a
little more time before making her "meet the parents". Still, we made plans
to meet for lunch once July wound down. He thought we might all get together
and told me not to worry, he had a job and would help pay the check. The first
time I met the young lady he was so crazy about was as she cried herself senseless
over his casket. She laid a broken heart chain and necklace across his hands.
She wore the mating half around her slender neck. Her courage in court helped
to solidify the deal that sent a drug dealer to prison. I hope she, and Chuck's
other friends, make the right decision and swear off drug use so we may never
see their faces on these pages.
Everyone ever touched by Miranda. This will be a tribute to the life she lived.
She was the most remarkable and inspirational woman I have ever known. I was
in awe of my own daughter. Even as her mother, her beauty took my breath away,
and as she walked this earth from her crawling stages to adulthood her beauty
from the inside amazed me. Miranda loved about every living thing and each friend
she had she made her relationship with them special and unique.
Jamie was a very loving son, brother, grandson, nephew, boyfriend and friend..
Most importantly he was the best father anyone could have asked for.. Even though
he was only 16 when he was taken away from us from his so called friend, he
did everything for his daughter and mother of his daughter that he had
asked to marry him when he turns 18.. Jamie was the type of kid that would take
his shirt off his back for anyone that needs it.. Jamie died on April
23, 2008.. If only his so called friend (29 yrs old), his mother and the other
people at the home called 911 instead of waiting 3 hours, he would still be
here with us today.. Jamie's dad passed away Nov 2005 and he had a hard time
dealing with loosing his father and could not believe he was gone.. Well now
Jamie is at home with his dad..Until we meet again... I am proud of you my son..Love
you always and forever, Mommy
Kaylin Marie Mathews was born on a Tuesday March 1, 1988. Kaylin was my oldest
child and my only daughter. She could play the piano, guitar, and drums and
loved to sing. She had been "spinning records" the last few years and loved
to mix music. She had been working as a d.j. at the time of her death and was
very good. Kaylin was an only child for 71/2 years. She has one brother and
one sister. She was a talented writer. She made jewelry and she could draw.
There was nothing that my baby couldn't do, if she wanted to. Kaylin was left
to die in a ravine on June 30, 2008. She was found on July 1, 2008. Her date
of death is listed as a Tuesday July 1, 2008. She was 20 years old. I miss her
every second of every day. The world lost an amazing talent and an amazing young
woman. I lost a part of my heart.
R.J. was truly a blessing in our lives. He was the kind of son that most parents
only dream of having. He always respected and obeyed his parents and never got
in trouble. RJ was never in trouble in his life RJ always called home to let
us know where he was and when he would be home. When he was missing and we couldn't
reach him on his cell phone, we knew immediately something terrible was wrong.
This is a nightmare that no parent should have to go through and we are living
it. Our concern is not what we are going through, but what our son had to go
through in his final moments of life.
William Michael Grandchamp better known as Billy, was born Nov 7,1979. HE was
a only child. Billy had many friends. Billy often told his friends that his
MOM was his best friend. Billy liked to collect sports attire like jerseys and
sports caps.Everything he wore had to match. He was meticulous with his clothing,
car, and home. Although, Billy had no children of his own he loved children.
He told me his greatest wish was to find a good girl and settle down and have
a family. That seemed to be very important to him. Even at a young age he had
a gift with children. Billy's friends have always commented on how good he was
with their children and how their children loved him. Billy was loved by so
many people. He had over 800 friends and family members at his wake. Billy will
be greatly missed by all his family and friends.
Chase lived life spontaneously with the freedom of a butterfly – a free spirit
& soul – no one could hold him down, except his baby girl. She was his LIFE.
There wasn’t anything he wouldn’t do for her, including getting clean. Chase
was clean 1.5 yrs, after 6 months in residential rehab in New Orleans, continued
with NA meetings, substance abuse group counseling, and sought out a Navy recruiter
who told him all he would have to do to be eligible. He seemed to be on his
way, until he fell off the wagon 12 days out of jail. Turning to heroin again
to deal with stress was the mistake of his life. “Chase’s Story” is shared with
you on his main page. Thanks for taking time to read it. Sincere and heartfelt
thanks to the FDLFD Family for taking us under their wings. “They will sing
me to them, and I will hear.” ~RIP Chase~4evrYng~1985-2009
Katelynn Lillian Porter, 16, of West Elgin, was killed in a car crash on Dunborough
Rd. in Elgin County. “In loving memory of Katelynn Porter. 12/12/09. 9:40 p.m.”
is written between two hearts on the roadside memorial, a makeshift cross. Porter
was a student at West Elgin secondary school, where officials are trying to
come to grips with the news of her death, especially so close to Christmas.
Tony passed away 10 days after his 16th birthday. He asked permission to spend the night at his friends and I told him yes. I told him" I love you" and he replied "I love you too Mom. Tony was the kid who wanted to make everyone laugh. He had such a wonderful sense of humor and a big heart. He would talk to his friends for hours trying to help them solve their problems. He was a loving big brother, and a wonderful son. He would help you with anything without even being asked. Tony was an extremely intelligent child. He was always placed in advanced classes. A week before he passed we received a letter from Columbine informing us that Tony was nominated to participate in their advanced English Program. He had a gift for writing stories.
She loved all things technical and mechanical with her older brother Ian and fashion and decorating days with her older sister Genevieve. She loved Gothic country art, the workings of the human body, video games, driving and her new tattoo machine. She loved swimming and surfing. She loved all things living and loved her dog Timpleton and her parrot Thermopolis. She had a strong heart and soul, was an independent and progressive thinker, open minded and a will power like no one else. Her favorite place to go was Barnes and Noble.
Vivianna Satterfield was 15 years old! Vivi was the type of young lady that put other people in front of herself. She would always say "Peace and Love".
Kelli Laine Lewis is my only daughter. Kelli died when she was 18 after attending a party hosted by 3 adults who offered a $5.00 entry fee to come and drink all you wanted. A pretty tempting offer for teens not old enough to buy alcohol.
Growing up – she had it all. She was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She wShe was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She was always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing. Taylor was a huge fan of Tyler Perry’s Madea. She owned every play and knew every word to every gospel song in the plays. She would sing them at the top of her lungs to anyone that would listen. as always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing.
He went out THE FIRST TIME to celebrate being "LEGAL" with a creep he considered a friend (even though we warned him this guy was not a true friend). My son did not drive so he was picked up about ten thirty. Even when it was obvious my son was having difficulties this creep brought him to his own house , which is 4 houses away for a few hours, and dropped him off here at home in the middle of the night WITHOUT KNOCKING OR CALLING OR WAKING US UP. We found Ben in his bed the next morning when we tried to wake him.
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Ohio News:
Heroin's scourge getting worse here
Monday, December 10, 2007 3:06 AM
THE COLUMBUS DISPATCH
Three old buddies met in
Westerville to reminisce, play video games and, as was their habit,
do drugs.
Anthony Moore and Chadwick Foster shared cocaine
with James Baisden, who was visiting from West Virginia, Westerville
police say. Later in the evening, Moore and Foster broke out
black-tar heroin.
Shooting up was the last thing they did together.
The three crashed, but Baisden never woke up.
Moore and Foster now are charged with providing
the heroin that killed their friend on Sept. 2. Baisden, 28, was the
father of three young children.
His death is among 28 from a heroin overdose in
Franklin County this year, the coroner said. That's more heroin
deaths than in the previous three years combined.
"This is an epidemic problem. The amounts we're
seeing -- we're talking central Ohio -- is not normal," said Tony
Marotta, resident agent in charge of Ohio for the U.S. Drug
Enforcement Administration. "It doesn't make sense for the doorstep
of middle America."
Heroin from Mexico, plied by Mexican dealers, is
turning up all over central Ohio. Experts say the potency of
black-tar heroin, named for its appearance, almost matches the
purity of heroin from the Middle East and that the stronger heroin
is leading to more deaths.
The influx of heroin parallels the growing Latino
population in Ohio.
"They're bringing with them black-tar heroin,"
said Michael Sanders, spokesman for the DEA's national headquarters.
Heroin use goes through cycles, said Columbus
Police Sgt. Bill Mingus. "It's never been a bigger problem than it
is now."
Cell-phone deals
Although heroin has been
surging in central Ohio, it still is not as common as cocaine or
marijuana, police say. But the recent rash of overdose deaths has
police concerned.
Officers aren't seeing the stereotypical images
of heroin dealers' hanging out in inner-city back alleys while users
cruise for a score, shooting up in flop houses or "needle parks."
These days, deals are arranged by cell phone and
completed in the parking lots of suburban shopping centers,
preferably ones that offer quick access to an interstate.
Assistant U.S. Attorney Tim Prichard said dealers
fill and deliver drug orders with such ease you would think it was
pizza.
One deal happened in September outside the Old
Navy store at 1852 Hilliard-Rome Rd. in Columbus, near Hilliard,
federal court documents say. Busy shoppers apparently weren't aware
that 70 balloons packed with heroin, roughly $1,400 worth, had just
been sold.
In Dublin, dealers and users regularly met at the
Kroger parking lot off Muirfield Drive during the summer of 2006.
"That was a real eye-opener for us," Marotta said.
The day before James Baisden died of an overdose
this fall, he asked his mother for $100. He told her it was for a
car payment.
Baisden had struggled with cocaine for years, but
in the months before he died he seemed to be doing better, said his
mother, Cathy Quinn. He had a car-sales job in West Virginia for six
months. He had come back to Columbus to visit his children -- ages
4, 6 and 8 years -- and their mother.
Westerville police think that the two friends who
were with Baisden on Sept. 2 had a role in his death. Foster, 32,
and Moore, 28, were each charged last month with felony counts of
reckless homicide and corrupting another with drugs.
Baisden hadn't used heroin in the weeks before
his death. He wouldn't have known about its potency and danger, said
Westerville police detective Eric Joering.
But Moore and Chadwick knew what was being sold
in Columbus. They had purchased the potent, black-tar heroin from
Mexican men through a cell-phone deal, Joering said.
Mexican connection
Often, overdose deaths such
as Baisden's are ruled accidental, with no one held responsible,
simply because it is unclear who provided the drugs.
"If we can show where they obtained the narcotics
from, we'll go after that every time," Joering said of prosecuting
the people who were doing drugs with the person who overdosed.
In August, Jose Manuel Cazares Contreras and
Victor Delgadillo Parra, both of whom entered the country illegally
from Mexico, were charged on federal counts of manslaughter. They
are accused of providing the heroin that killed Arthur Eisel IV in
Grove City. It was the first time federal laws were used in Ohio to
go after dealers for deaths their drugs caused.
Eisel had tried to get off heroin and recently
had completed rehab. He was visiting his mother and stepfather's
house when he shot up for the last time. His brother found him
slumped over the bathtub with a syringe nearby.
Contreras, Parra and many other people whom
federal agents have arrested are from Tepic, Mexico, a city of
300,000 people north of Puerto Vallarta.
Some dealers immigrate to central Ohio from
Mexico because they know they can make a living selling heroin.
Emmanuel Arturo Aguayo Hernandez and Louis Perez Puentes paid a
smuggler to help them cross the border, the DEA says. They moved
into a Far East Side apartment and sold about $1,200 in heroin a
day, according to authorities.
Over on the West Side near Hilliard, federal
agents seized $34,170 in cash when they raided the 5577 Millwheel
Court apartment. The three people they arrested there admitted that
the cash was payment for black-tar heroin.
"It can occur anywhere in the city. It rarely
occurs in the same location," said Lt. Jeffrey Lawless of the Grove
City Police Department.
Sgt. Jeff Pearson, a detective who has been on
the Grove City force since 1983, said he never saw heroin until a
few years ago. Now, he sees too much.
Grove City police made 24 heroin-trafficking
arrests this year after only one last year. They have had 36
heroin-possession cases compared with three in 2006.
Two Charged With Reckless Homicide In Overdose Death
NBC 4 updated 10:15 p.m. PT, Tues., Nov.
27, 2007
COLUMBUS, Ohio When James Baisden died September 2,
police considered his death suspicious. Yesterday, police arrested his
two friends and now consider them his killers, NBC 4’sTacoma
Newsome reported.
Chad Foster, 32, and Anthony Moore, 28, appeared in court today for the
first time. Both men are being charged with reckless homicide and
corrupting another with drugs after a two-month investigation by
Westerville Police.
Both Foster and Moore evoked their right not to speak. The judge ordered
the men to remain jailed on $100,000 bond and not reach out to their
former friend’s family.
Foster and Moore are due back in court December 1, according to Newsome.
Stay tuned to NBC 4 and refresh nbc4i.com for more information.
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We Are the Broken
We are the broken
Our lives have changed
Our children taken,
We're filled with pain.
We look to you
To show you care.
At first you support us
Then you're not there.
We see you out
You see us too
You avoid us
That hurts too.
What did we do
For you to leave?
Our children died
Now we grieve.
We put on masks
When you are near
We scream inside
But you don't hear.
You tell us, "Move on.
Get on with your life."
We simply nod
Your words piercing like a knife.
We long to say our child's name
The one you want unspoken
So you don't call because you're
afraid
Of we, who are the broken.
By: Kim Lasater
Mother of Kaylin Mathews
Copyright 2009
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