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Danielle cherished family, friends and life. She had her whole life planned out; her husband, number of kids, two dogs and would be a dermatologist, a career where she could help others but have time for her family.
Christi had just enrolled in college. She just began taking First Baptist Church shuttles downtown every Thursday to befriend the homeless. Just chit chatting with them and letting them know they had a friend. In her journals, she was determined to turn her life around and she started by helping others. She volunteered often for the M.U.S.T. Ministries to help set up their clothing shop for the homeless and the children's center. She helped cooked their meals. She helped do their laundry. She wanted to go into a field helping others. She would have changed at least one person's life, for the better, when they thought there was no more hope. She didn't show up last Thursday. She died.
In the months before she was killed, 21-year-old Anke Furber had been acting scared and she seemed to know she was in danger. Several days after Furber's charred remains were discovered in a small vineyard in Norcross, Anke's mom, Ria, found a note in Anke's desk at home in Marietta. In it, Anke seemed to foreshadow her own death. She wrote, "My parents would surely grieve the loss of their wonderful daughter whose craziness would soon lead to her slaughter". Ria isnt sure exactly when the note was written, but believes it was written in a close time frame to the actual murder.
At 22 years old, Levi had goals and ambitions of being a business owner, a husband and a father. He loved his family and friends with everything in him and would do anything for you. His shyness and manners we're a shining attribute to who he was. Unfortunately, Levi befriended someone who for nearly three years took advantage of his kindness and when asked to leave his home, he killed him. If he would have just walked out the door as asked, Levi would still be here today. We'll never know all the wonderful things that Levi would have accomplished, but we know he was a "Friend" till the end.
Ephraim was 21 yrs old when he prematurely transitioned to the other side. He was a very warm hearted young man. And was always available to help friends and family. As his cousin Ben said about him: "You can lay a 1,000. on the table and know completely that Ephraim would have never taken it". He spent most of his days at Antique World in Clarence , NY which was owned and operated by his Uncle. That was my sons world. A world he will no longer be able to participate in. He is sorely missed by his family and friends.
Mark suffered a brain injury at the age of 19 the night of a high school prom. Mark died at the age of 25. Life was hard for Mark, he lived an aphasic life. Mark struggled to relearn his alphabet and to speak again. Neuro rehab, drug rehab, jails, institutions and death. Mark was disabled and a fighter all at the same time. College, heavy equipment operator, volunteering were all part of these six years. Mark loved kids and wished he had one. Due to the selfish reasoning of his so called friends, Mark will never be able to achieve his dreams that he fought so hard for. Mark's struggle is over !! PEACE..........
His friends describe him as a kind, warm hearted, full of energy, always smiling, and a very silly young man. They also said that whenever Sean walked into a room that he had the ability lighting up the room because he was full of life and energy! He loved his dad, his mom, and his sister very much. He had a very special bond with his great grandma Efford and his great aunt Charlene whom also up in heaven with him. A warm hug from Sean was just another way that he showed his affection to his family and friends
When Cayte was in the middle school she was on the track team, she was a cheerleader for the Nor-Roc Vikings, she was on a soccer team, and she loved attending the dances at the Sad Cafe. When she went to high school, all of those activities stopped. The sad reason was because she was too old. All the kids have, once they reach high school, are the woods and the homes of friends when the parents are at work. If she had activities to do after school when she went to high school, maybe this wouldn't have happened.
From her birth to her passing Katty touched so many lives. Not only did her family have the joy of watching her grow from a 6 pound baby girl to a beautiful young woman, but so many others did as well. The lives she touched are too many to fathom. Her beauty and grace preceded her where ever she went. Her heart was made of fine gold and she cared for others always before herself. She was not just special to all of us but to the Lord who saw fit to call her home at such a young age. Her mansion was ready! When we think of Katty now we all can be at peace because we know she is with her Lord, never to face this harsh world we live in day to day. She is with us always when we remember her smile, her touch, and her kind words. We all had the pleasure of being touched by an ANGEL!
We want our son's name to be Remembered and to bring hope and joy out of something that has been the darkest and heartbreaking days of our families life. JP was very out spoken and we have decided to be that way on this site and to be his voice about the drug companies and the public official's that sit back and do nothing. If we could save one person from what our family had to go Through and is still going Through, it would be all worth it We will not stop until the truth gets out. We want his memory to live on.
Time has gone by so quickly and it seems like we haven't seen your face in forever. Our hearts are broken, our tears flow so freely and our souls feel empty. Michael, you left us with so many happy memories but the memories can never take your place. We know you and your uncle Sam are saving a place for those who cherished you the most.
Two weeks before he died, Chuck called me on the phone. He was excited to tell me he was joining the National Guard. He had begun to think about being a History Teacher. He planned to attend school after basic training. He also mentioned a new girlfriend. He was pretty crazy about her but wanted to give things a little more time before making her "meet the parents". Still, we made plans to meet for lunch once July wound down. He thought we might all get together and told me not to worry, he had a job and would help pay the check. The first time I met the young lady he was so crazy about was as she cried herself senseless over his casket. She laid a broken heart chain and necklace across his hands. She wore the mating half around her slender neck. Her courage in court helped to solidify the deal that sent a drug dealer to prison. I hope she, and Chuck's other friends, make the right decision and swear off drug use so we may never see their faces on these pages.
Everyone ever touched by Miranda. This will be a tribute to the life she lived. She was the most remarkable and inspirational woman I have ever known. I was in awe of my own daughter. Even as her mother, her beauty took my breath away, and as she walked this earth from her crawling stages to adulthood her beauty from the inside amazed me. Miranda loved about every living thing and each friend she had she made her relationship with them special and unique.
Jamie was a very loving son, brother, grandson, nephew, boyfriend and friend.. Most importantly he was the best father anyone could have asked for.. Even though he was only 16 when he was taken away from us from his so called friend, he did everything for his daughter and mother of his daughter  that he had asked to marry him when he turns 18.. Jamie was the type of kid that would take his shirt off his back for anyone that needs it..  Jamie died on April 23, 2008.. If only his so called friend (29 yrs old), his mother and the other people at the home called 911 instead of waiting 3 hours, he would still be here with us today.. Jamie's dad passed away Nov 2005 and he had a hard time dealing with loosing his father and could not believe he was gone.. Well now Jamie is at home with his dad..Until we meet again... I am proud of you my son..Love you always and forever, Mommy
Kaylin Marie Mathews was born on a Tuesday March 1, 1988. Kaylin was my oldest child and my only daughter. She could play the piano, guitar, and drums and loved to sing. She had been "spinning records" the last few years and loved to mix music. She had been working as a d.j. at the time of her death and was very good. Kaylin was an only child for 71/2 years. She has one brother and one sister. She was a talented writer. She made jewelry and she could draw. There was nothing that my baby couldn't do, if she wanted to. Kaylin was left to die in a ravine on June 30, 2008. She was found on July 1, 2008. Her date of death is listed as a Tuesday July 1, 2008. She was 20 years old. I miss her every second of every day. The world lost an amazing talent and an amazing young woman. I lost a part of my heart.
R.J. was truly a blessing in our lives. He was the kind of son that most parents only dream of having. He always respected and obeyed his parents and never got in trouble. RJ was never in trouble in his life RJ always called home to let us know where he was and when he would be home. When he was missing and we couldn't reach him on his cell phone, we knew immediately something terrible was wrong. This is a nightmare that no parent should have to go through and we are living it. Our concern is not what we are going through, but what our son had to go through in his final moments of life.
William Michael Grandchamp better known as Billy, was born Nov 7,1979. HE was a only child. Billy had many friends. Billy often told his friends that his MOM was his best friend. Billy liked to collect sports attire like jerseys and sports caps.Everything he wore had to match. He was meticulous with his clothing, car, and home. Although, Billy had no children of his own he loved children. He told me his greatest wish was to find a good girl and settle down and have a family. That seemed to be very important to him. Even at a young age he had a gift with children. Billy's friends have always commented on how good he was with their children and how their children loved him. Billy was loved by so many people. He had over 800 friends and family members at his wake. Billy will be greatly missed by all his family and friends.
Chase lived life spontaneously with the freedom of a butterfly – a free spirit & soul – no one could hold him down, except his baby girl. She was his LIFE. There wasn’t anything he wouldn’t do for her, including getting clean. Chase was clean 1.5 yrs, after 6 months in residential rehab in New Orleans, continued with NA meetings, substance abuse group counseling, and sought out a Navy recruiter who told him all he would have to do to be eligible. He seemed to be on his way, until he fell off the wagon 12 days out of jail. Turning to heroin again to deal with stress was the mistake of his life. “Chase’s Story” is shared with you on his main page. Thanks for taking time to read it. Sincere and heartfelt thanks to the FDLFD Family for taking us under their wings. “They will sing me to them, and I will hear.” ~RIP Chase~4evrYng~1985-2009
Katelynn Lillian Porter, 16, of West Elgin, was killed in a car crash on Dunborough Rd. in Elgin County. “In loving memory of Katelynn Porter. 12/12/09. 9:40 p.m.” is written between two hearts on the roadside memorial, a makeshift cross. Porter was a student at West Elgin secondary school, where officials are trying to come to grips with the news of her death, especially so close to Christmas.
Tony passed away 10 days after his 16th birthday. He asked permission to spend the night at his friends and I told him yes. I told him" I love you" and he replied "I love you too Mom. Tony was the kid who wanted to make everyone laugh. He had such a wonderful sense of humor and a big heart. He would talk to his friends for hours trying to help them solve their problems. He was a loving big brother, and a wonderful son. He would help you with anything without even being asked. Tony was an extremely intelligent child. He was always placed in advanced classes. A week before he passed we received a letter from Columbine informing us that Tony was nominated to participate in their advanced English Program. He had a gift for writing stories.
She loved all things technical and mechanical with her older brother Ian and fashion and decorating days with her older sister Genevieve. She loved Gothic country art, the workings of the human body, video games, driving and her new tattoo machine. She loved swimming and surfing. She loved all things living and loved her dog Timpleton and her parrot Thermopolis. She had a strong heart and soul, was an independent and progressive thinker, open minded and a will power like no one else. Her favorite place to go was Barnes and Noble.
Vivianna Satterfield was 15 years old! Vivi was the type of young lady that put other people in front of herself. She would always say "Peace and Love".
Kelli Laine Lewis is my only daughter. Kelli died when she was 18 after attending a party hosted by 3 adults who offered a $5.00 entry fee to come and drink all you wanted. A pretty tempting offer for teens not old enough to buy alcohol.
Growing up – she had it all. She was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She wShe was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She was always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing. Taylor was a huge fan of Tyler Perry’s Madea. She owned every play and knew every word to every gospel song in the plays. She would sing them at the top of her lungs to anyone that would listen. as always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing.
He went out THE FIRST TIME to celebrate being "LEGAL" with a creep he considered a friend (even though we warned him this guy was not a true friend). My son did not drive so he was picked up about ten thirty. Even when it was obvious my son was having difficulties this creep brought him to his own house , which is 4 houses away for a few hours, and dropped him off here at home in the middle of the night WITHOUT KNOCKING OR CALLING OR WAKING US UP. We found Ben in his bed the next morning when we tried to wake him.

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Parents meet with man who dumped daughter's body

The 19-year-old from Rancho Santa Margarita was last seen in June 2007.

 

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Mother, Nili Jou, far right, is comforted by attorney Gloria Allred, middle, as father, Reza Jou, the parents of San Diego University student Donna Jou leave a meeting with John Steven Burgess Thursday May 7, 2009 in Los Angeles. The Jous met with Burgess, a convicted sex offender who pleaded guilty to involuntary manslaughter Wednesday in connection with Donna Jou's death, telling the judge he dumped the 19-year-old's body into the ocean after she overdosed on drugs.
DAMIAN DOVARGANES, AP
 
By DOUG IRVING and ANDREW GALVIN
The Orange County Register

LOS ANGELES – The parents of Donna Jou, a 19-year-old Rancho Santa Margarita woman who disappeared nearly two years ago, finally got a chance Thursday to talk to the man who says he dumped her body at sea after she took drugs and died at his house.
John Steven Burgess, 36, pleaded guilty Wednesday to charges of involuntary manslaughter and concealing the body of Jou, a student he met through a Craigslist ad on the Internet.
Burgess, a convicted sex offender, said in court Wednesday that he gave Jou cocaine, heroin and alcohol during a party at his home on June 23, 2007, then dumped her body in the ocean when he found her dead the next day.
Jou's parents, Reza and Nili Jou, met with Burgess on Thursday in an attempt to get some of their questions answered. The meeting took place at Parker Center, the Los Angeles Police Department headquarters. The Jous' attorney, Gloria Allred, and LAPD detectives were also in the room when the meeting took place, Allred said.
After the meeting, the couple were visibly upset. They took a few minutes to compose themselves in the Parker Center lobby before emerging to speak to the news media.
"Some of our question has been answered," said Reza Jou. "But we must find my child. We are not going to give up until we find Donna."
"Why? Why? Why? When he knows that she's only 19 years old," said Nili Jou. "I have so many whys unanswered. All my whys, nobody can answer my whys. Why did this happen to my baby?"
Nili Jou said that Burgess had apologized to them. "He knew what was the right thing to do when he found her, but chose not to do the right thing. He said that he's sorry. How sincere, I don't know."
The couple showed Burgess photos of their daughter from a red album.
"We wanted him to see that this was a human being who is part of a family," Allred said. "This was a human being, not a piece of garbage that you throw in the ocean."
According to Allred, Burgess gave the couple the following account:
He liked to have parties at his house and somebody told him it would be good if he got more girls to come. He saw Jou's ad and invited her to a party, and she said she'd be interested.
He picked her up on his motorcycle and drove her to his house, which was two hours away in Los Angeles.
They were listening to music. More people arrived. There were some drugs at the party that Jou apparently used, Allred said, citing Burgess.
He said he did not force her to take drugs. It was a long way back to Orange County, so she decided to spend the night and she went to sleep, Allred continued, citing Burgess's account.
He said Jou went to sleep in a chair. About 6:30 or 7 a.m., he woke up and felt for her pulse, according to Allred.
"She was, in his words, gone," Allred said.
He did not attempt CPR. He thought about what to do.
At one point, he put the body in the bed of his truck, drove to Jou's family's house and was going to give her body back to her mother, Allred said.
But he had second thoughts and ultimately put a sheet over her, put her in a duffel bag, put her in his sailboat, sailed out and put her in the ocean, he told the couple, according to Allred.
Burgess said he'd been wanting to tell the truth for a long time, but his lawyer had told him not to talk, Allred said.
He said when he put Jou's body into ocean, he was crying and very emotional. He jumped into the water thinking he would kill himself but got back into boat and went to shore, Allred said.
He said he was like a zombie for days afterward, but he was afraid that people would say that he killed her, so he painted his car black and went home to Florida, Allred said.
He told his mother some of what had happened but not everything, and she told him to get a lawyer, according to Allred.
"I cannot tell you if I believed him word for word," said Nili Jou.
"This man is a con artist. He's a con man. He'll do anything to get himself off easy," said Reza Jou.
Reza Jou said the couple cannot have closure until his daughter's body is found.
Jou was last seen by family members riding in the back of a motorcycle with Burgess.
After she disappeared, law enforcement from Orange and Los Angeles counties began investigating her disappearance. He was picked up in Florida weeks later and extradited to Los Angeles, but authorities said he refused to speak to investigators about Jou.
Friends and Jou family members attended Burgess' court appearances, holding signs outside the courthouse that read, "Ask Burgess where Donna is." Family members launched a Web site seeking tips from the public to find the 19-year-old student and offered a $15,000 reward for information leading to her location.
But though authorities have conducted several searches, Jou's body has not been found.
Investigators with the Los Angeles Police Department said Jou and Burgess exchanged several e-mails since May 2007 regarding drugs and other topics.
Prosecutors said that in exchange for his plea, drug-related charges against Burgess will be dismissed.
Burgess is expected to be sentenced May 18 to five years in state prison.
"Unfortunately, the law that we have is not sufficient to give him the penalty that he deserves," said Reza Jou, who added he believes Burgess should spend the rest of his life in prison.
Register staff writer Sal Hernandez contributed to this report.br>

Contact the writer: 714-704-3777 or dirving@ocregister.com






Appeal court reinstates murder charge in Ontario overdose case

Will Bigham, Staff Writer

Created: 05/01/2009 07:21:59 PM PDT

A state court of appeal reinstated murder charges Friday against an Ontario man accused ofmirandadaly.com

 thwarting attempts to seek medical care for his girlfriend as she died of a drug overdose.

A judge dismissed murder charges in October against Andrew Girvan, 32, ruling that there wasn't enough evidence presented by prosecutors at a preliminary hearing for Girvan to stand trial on murder charges.

Miranda Daly, 23, died in August 2007 of a drug overdose at Girvan's home in Ontario.

Prosecutors say Girvan supplied Daly drugs, and failed to seek help for her after she lost consciousness. Witnesses said Girvan threatened to kill other people at his home who suggested they seek medical care for Daly, of Corona.

In its opinion ordering the murder charge reinstated, the court of appeal said Girvan demonstrated "implied malice" during Daly's death.

"By his own admission, Girvan supplied drugs to the victim, his girlfriend," the court's written opinion says. "In addition, it can be inferred that he knew she overdosed, and that he actively prevented others from seeking aid for her by way of threats, despite knowing she was in mortal danger."

The court ordered the Superior Court of San Bernardino County to set aside its order granting Girvan's motion to dismiss murder charge, and enter a new order denying the motion.

"Obviously I'm happy about it," said Deputy District Attorney Mike Dowd, who is prosecuting Girvan's case. "I think

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that it's the right decision. That's why we decided to take it up, because we thought he had an opportunity" the get the murder charge reinstated.

"I'm happy for the victim's family that they'll get their day in court," Dowd added.

The San Bernardino County Public Defender's Office has until May 11 to petition the California Supreme Court to review the appeal court's decision, Dowd said.

After the murder charge was dismissed on Oct. 31, Girvan faced a manslaughter charge that carries a prison sentence of up to four years. With the murder charge now reinstated, Girvan faces 15 years to life, Dowd said.

Donna Fernandez, the deputy public defender who represents Girvan, could not be reached for comment late Friday.

will.bigham@inlandnewspapers.com

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Prosecutors appeal dismissal of murder charge in Ontario OD case

 

By Will Bigham on November 14, 2008 4:54 PM

A state court of appeal has agreed to consider reinstating second-degree murder charges against an Ontario man accused of failing to help his girlfriend as she died of a drug overdose.

On Oct. 31, West Valley Superior Court Judge Mary Fuller granted a defense motion to dismiss a murder charge filed against 32-year-old Andrew Girvan.

Prosecutors appealed Fuller's decision to the California 4th District Court of Appeal, which agreed Thursday to consider reinstating the murder charge.

Girvan is accused of supplying drugs to Miranda Daly, 23, then threatening to kill other people at his home who insisted Daly needed medical attention as she lay incapacitated. Daly, of Corona, died Aug. 12, 2007.

(Click the link to the right to read the prosecution's appeal) GIRVAN.pdf

Fuller ruled Oct. 31 that Girvan must stand trial on involuntary manslaughter charges. She set a trial date for Monday.

But with the court of appeal agreeing to consider reinstatement of the murder charge, criminal proceedings against Girvan are stayed pending the court's decision.

"This matter is off calendar until the court of appeal rules," Fuller said Friday.

The prosecution argued in its appeal that Girvan's actions the night of Daly's death constitute "implied malice" necessary for a second-degree murder charge.

Girvan refused to help Daly as she died of a drug overdose, told other people at his home not to touch her or call paramedics, and even walked around his home with guns, prosecutors said.

In the appeal, Grover Merritt, Lead Deputy District Attorney at the Appellate Services Unit of the San Bernardino County District Attorney's Office, said Girvan "prevented rescue" of Daly.

"While no previous California case appears to confront precisely this fact pattern, the application of settled principles to it compels a finding of second-degree murder on these facts," Merritt wrote.

Merritt cited three previous second-degree murder convictions involving "implied malice" in similar situations to Daly's death.

In a 1966 case, a doctor was convicted of second-degree murder for carrying out a "quack" treatment on a cancer patient who later died, Merritt wrote.

In 1977, a man who starved his son to death was convicted of second-degree murder. And in 2000, a man was convicted of the charge after beating a woman unconscious then forcing her into the deep end of a pool, where she drowned.

Merritt said he expects the court of appeal to rule on the Girvan murder charge in about two weeks.

Deputy District Attorney Mike Dowd, the trial prosecutor, said the court of appeal's ruling could also be appealed to the California Supreme Court.

Second-degree murder carries a prison sentence of 15 years to life, while involuntary manslaughter carries a sentence of 2, 3 or 4 years.

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Murder charge thrown out for Ontario man

By Will Bigham, Staff Writer
Article Created: 10/31/2008 09:40:44 PM PDT
RANCHO CUCAMONGA - A West Valley Superior Court judge threw out a murder charge Friday filed against an Ontario man who failed to help his girlfriend as she died of a drug overdose.

Prosecutors argued that Andrew Girvan, 32, effectively murdered 23-year-old Miranda Daly on Aug. 13, 2007, because he supplied her with drugs at his Ontario home.

In addition, Girvan failed to help Daly as she lay incapacitated, and he threatened to kill other people at the home who insisted that Daly, of Corona, needed medical attention, prosecutors said.

Judge Mary Fuller apparently disagreed that Girvan's actions rose to the level of murder, and dismissed the second-degree murder charge.

Girvan's defense attorney had filed a motion to dismiss both the murder charge and an involuntary manslaughter charge.

Fuller ruled that Girvan must stand trial for involuntary manslaughter.

The difference between the potential prison sentences for second-degree murder and involuntary manslaughter are substantial.

If Girvan were convicted of second-degree murder, he would face a prison sentence of 15 years to life. Involuntary manslaughter carries sentences of two, three or four years.

In her motion to dismiss the charges, Donna Fernandez, Girvan's attorney, argued that there was no evidence that Girvan forced Daly to ingest the ecstasy and morphine that killed her.

Simply supplying drugs that contribute to death is not tantamount

to murder, she argued.

"Handing someone a gun is not the equivalent of shooting them," Fernandez wrote. "If this evidence is sufficient for the murder charge to lie, anyone who sells or furnishes a drug to someone who subsequently dies will be subject to murder charge if the drug is a contributing factor to their death.

"Such is not the law."

In his response to Fernandez's motion, Deputy District Attorney Michael Dowd argued that Girvan's actions met the standard of "implied malice" necessary for a second-degree murder conviction.

"By giving her the drugs and then standing idly by, he showed a conscious disregard for her life," Dowd said.

Dowd said that three other people at Girvan's home saw that Daly was in need of medical attention and urged Girvan to do something.

He responded angrily to the suggestions, ordering no one to touch Daly and threatening to kill anyone who did. He was also walking around his home with guns, Dowd wrote.

"The defendant stated, `When she shops breathing, that's when we have a problem,"' Dowd wrote. "The victim did stop breathing due to the actions by word and deed of the defendant. He has a problem. He murdered her. He is the cause of her death."

After the hearing, Daly's mother, Debbe Case, was visibly upset over the judge's ruling.

"I'm very shocked," Case said. "I can't even process it right now because he clearly, intentionally wanted her to die. It's clear in all his actions. ... How can (Fuller) say there was no intent to murder?"

The court set a trial date of Nov. 17.

In addition to the involuntary manslaughter charge, Girvan faces a felony firearm possession charge and two felony charges of possession of drugs for sale.

will.bigham@inlandnewspapers.com

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Bail up to $1M in OD death
By Rod Leveque, Staff Writer
Article Created: 03/05/2008 09:51:24 PM PST

RANCHO CUCAMONGA - A judge increased bail to $1 million Wednesday for an Ontario man accused of failing to get medical help for his girlfriend as she died of a drug overdose.

The move came less than a week after prosecutors charged Andrew Girvan with murder in connection with the Aug. 12 death of Miranda Daly.

Girvan, 31, pleaded not guilty to the charge during his arraignment Wednesday morning in West Valley Superior Court.

The case against Girvan is unusual because it generally is not illegal for ordinary citizens to refuse to help others in need.

Girvan's attorney, Deputy Public Defender Donna Fernandez, said Wednesday that Girvan loved Daly, and called the murder charge against her client "outrageous."

"I don't believe he ever expected her to die, let alone intended for her to die," Fernandez said. "Her death was the tragic result of the party lifestyle she had chosen."

Until last week, Girvan had been charged with involuntary manslaughter. Prosecutors upped the charge to second-degree murder Friday after evaluating testimony from a preliminary hearing two weeks ago.

Several witnesses testified during the hearing that they were in Girvan's home as Daly slowly died of an overdose of morphine and Ecstasy.

The witnesses said they wanted to get medical help for the 23-year-old woman, but Girvan would not let them.

They said he walked around the home carrying an assault rifle and other weapons, and

led them to believe they would be harmed if they took Daly to the hospital or called paramedics.

Deputy District Attorney Michael Dowd said the murder charge is warranted because Girvan acted with a "conscious disregard" for Daly's life.

Daly's friends and family have said the woman was not a drug user, and they believe Girvan intended for the woman to die.

Girvan's bail had been set at $75,000 when he was facing the manslaughter charge.

Dowd asked that it be raised to $1 million because that amount is standard for murder cases in San Bernardino County.

Judge Mary Fuller agreed.

Girvan, who remains in jail, will return to court on March 28 for a pretrial hearing. His trial is tentatively scheduled to begin on April 14.

 

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O.D. case scope grows

Man charged with murder

By Rod Leveque, Staff Writer
Article Launched: 03/01/2008 12:00:00 AM PST

RANCHO CUCAMONGA - An Ontario man accused of failing to help his girlfriend as she died of a drug overdose is now facing a murder charge.

Andrew Girvan had been charged with involuntary manslaughter in connection with the August death of 23-year-old Miranda Daly.

Prosecutors upped the charge Friday, saying they now believe Girvan was not only negligent but malicious when he failed to summon medical help for the woman and then interfered with other people who tried to step in.

"By allowing her to die in the way she did, he acted in conscious disregard of human life," Deputy District Attorney Michael Dowd said. "So we feel this is an appropriate charge."

The manslaughter charge carried a penalty of up to four years in prison. The second-degree murder count could land Girvan behind bars for 15 years to life.

The new charge marks a remarkable turn of events in the case.

Daly's family and friends initially had trouble persuading the San Bernardino County District Attorney's Office to consider Daly's death a homicide.

The circumstances of the death posed tricky legal issues for prosecutors because it generally is not illegal for an average citizen to refuse to help someone in need.

Only after heavy lobbying by Daly's mother, Debbe Case, did prosecutors charge Girvan, 31, with manslaughter.

That charge cleared a major legal hurdle last week when a judge ruled prosecutors had sufficient evidence to

take Girvan to trial.

Three witnesses testified at a preliminary hearing that they were inside Girvan's home with Daly in the early morning of Aug. 12 as she slowly slipped away from an excess of morphine and Ecstasy. /p>

All three said it was clear to them that the woman was dying as she lay unconscious for more than six hours.

They testified that they pleaded with Girvan to allow them to take the woman to a hospital, but he refused.

They said Girvan, a reputed drug dealer, walked around the house with a gun and led them to believe they would be harmed if they contacted authorities.

Dowd said the strength of that testimony prompted him and his supervisors to re-evaluate the case.

The prosecutor also said he believed evidence in the hearing suggested Girvan supplied Daly with the drugs.

Girvan's attorney, Deputy Public Defender Donna Fernandez, did not return a call seeking comment Friday afternoon.

Fernandez said last week that she believed prosecutors were stretching to charge her client with manslaughter, and she was considering filing a motion to have the charge dismissed.

Case, meanwhile, said Friday she has always believed Girvan deserved to be charged with murder.

The announcement of the murder charge gave her a glimmer of hope that Girvan may face the sort of justice she believes he deserves.

"I'm so relieved," she said. "I can't even tell you. All I could do when I found out this morning was just cry."

Girvan is due for arraignment Wednesday in West Valley Superior Court.

Dowd filed a request to have Girvan's bail increased from $75,000 to $1million as a result of the new charge.

The higher amount is standard for murder cases.

GGirvan remains in jail.

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O.D. case to proceed

Judge orders trial in woman's drug death

By Rod Leveque, Staff Writer
Article Launched: 02/23/2008 12:00:00 AM PST

RANCHO CUCAMONGA - A novel homicide case cleared its first major legal hurdle Friday when a judge ordered an Ontario man to stand trial for allegedly failing to help his girlfriend as she died from a drug overdose.

The judge ruled prosecutors may press forward with an involuntary manslaughter charge against 31-year-old Andrew Girvan despite laws that say ordinary citizens have no legal obligation to help each other in times of need.

"It's an interesting case," Judge Raymond Van Stockum said in handing down his ruling. "It has some interesting issues, and I'm sure it will be an interesting trial."

Girvan is charged in connection with the Aug. 12 death of Miranda Daly. The 23-year-old Corona woman died of an overdose of morphine and Ecstacy in Girvan's home in the 2500 block of Imperial Place.

Generally, the only time citizens are legally required to help each other is when they have a specific duty to do so. A parent, for example, is obligated to help his child. An on-duty lifeguard is obligated to help somebody drowning in front of him in a swimming pool.

Girvan did not share any of these traditional relationships with Daly.

The San Bernardino County District Attorney's Office, however, broadly interpreted these laws to construct a theory to hold him responsible for her death anyway.

They say he not only failed to help Daly as she died, but also stopped several other people from coming to her aid.

By doing so, he implicitly assumed the responsibility to get her medical care, they claim.

During a two-day preliminary hearing that concluded Friday in West Valley Superior Court, three witnesses who were in the home with Girvan and Daly testified that they pleaded with Girvan to allow them to take the woman to a hospital as she laid unconscious for more than six hours.

They said Girvan, a reputed drug dealer, appeared indifferent to the woman's condition.

They testified he flatly refused to allow them to get her help, walked around the house with a gun and led them to believe they would be harmed if they contacted authorities.

Girvan's attorney, Donna Fernandez, argued in court that Girvan was no more responsible for Daly's death than the three witnesses.

She said the trio had ample opportunity to call for an ambulance but, like Girvan, chose not to.

She argued that they exaggerated the supposed threats from Girvan after the fact to justify their own lack of action.

Outside the courtroom, Fernandez said she may seek to have the involuntary manslaughter charge dismissed before a trial begins.

"I think the DA is really trying to push the envelope with this," she said.

Deputy District Attorney Michael Dowd said the judge's decision to hold Girvan for trial proved the prosecution's legal theory is sound.

Though the precedent may be thin, the facts of the case are strong, he said.

"You always wonder how a court is going to react to a set of facts that you don't see often," Dowd said. "This judge took it very seriously."

Daly's mother, Debbe Case, campaigned tirelessly to convince the district attorney to charge Girvan with homicide.

Although she contends he deserves to be charged with murder, she said Friday she was greatly relieved by the judge's ruling.

"From the beginning they haven't given me a lot of hope he would be prosecuted at all," she said.

A second suspect, Robert Macias, is charged with making criminal threats against two of the three witnesses.

Prosecutors allege he told them he would harm them or their families if they went to the police about Daly's death.

Girvan and Macias have pleaded not guilty.

They remained in jail and are set to return to court on March 5 to be arraigned.

 

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O.D. case to proceed
Judge orders trial in woman's drug death
By Rod Leveque, Staff Writer
Article Created: 02/22/2008 10:14:59 PM PST

RANCHO CUCAMONGA - A novel homicide case cleared its first major legal hurdle Friday when a judge ordered an Ontario man to stand trial for allegedly failing to help his girlfriend as she died from a drug overdose.

The judge ruled prosecutors may press forward with an involuntary manslaughter charge against 31-year-old Andrew Girvan despite laws that say ordinary citizens have no legal obligation to help each other in times of need.

"It's an interesting case," Judge Raymond Van Stockum said in handing down his ruling. "It has some interesting issues, and I'm sure it will be an interesting trial."

Girvan is charged in connection with the Aug. 12 death of Miranda Daly. The 23-year-old Corona woman died of an overdose of morphine and Ecstacy in Girvan's home in the 2500 block of Imperial Place.

Generally, the only time citizens are legally required to help each other is when they have a specific duty to do so. A parent, for example, is obligated to help his child. An on-duty lifeguard is obligated to help somebody drowning in front of him in a swimming pool.

Girvan did not share any of these traditional relationships with Daly.

The San Bernardino County District Attorney's Office, however, broadly interpreted these laws to construct a theory to hold him responsible for her death anyway.

They say he not only failed to help Daly as she died, but also stopped several other people from coming to her aid.

By doing so, he implicitly assumed the responsibility to get her medical care, they claim.

During a two-day preliminary hearing that concluded Friday in West Valley Superior Court, three witnesses who were in the home with Girvan and Daly testified that they pleaded with Girvan to allow them to take the woman to a hospital as she laid unconscious for more than six hours.

They said Girvan, a reputed drug dealer, appeared indifferent to the woman's condition.

They testified he flatly refused to allow them to get her help, walked around the house with a gun and led them to believe they would be harmed if they contacted authorities.

Girvan's attorney, Donna Fernandez, argued in court that Girvan was no more responsible for Daly's death than the three witnesses.

She said the trio had ample opportunity to call for an ambulance but, like Girvan, chose not to.

She argued that they exaggerated the supposed threats from Girvan after the fact to justify their own lack of action.

Outside the courtroom, Fernandez said she may seek to have the involuntary manslaughter charge dismissed before a trial begins.

"I think the DA is really trying to push the envelope with this," she said.

Deputy District Attorney Michael Dowd said the judge's decision to hold Girvan for trial proved the prosecution's legal theory is sound.

Though the precedent may be thin, the facts of the case are strong, he said.

"You always wonder how a court is going to react to a set of facts that you don't see often," Dowd said. "This judge took it very seriously."

Daly's mother, Debbe Case, campaigned tirelessly to convince the district attorney to charge Girvan with homicide.

Although she contends he deserves to be charged with murder, she said Friday she was greatly relieved by the judge's ruling.

"From the beginning they haven't given me a lot of hope he would be prosecuted at all," she said.

A second suspect, Robert Macias, is charged with making criminal threats against two of the three witnesses.

Prosecutors allege he told them he would harm them or their families if they went to the police about Daly's death.

Girvan and Macias have pleaded not guilty.

They remained in jail and are set to return to court on March 5 to be arraigned.



 







Woman who provided deadly dose of pills to teen gets 6 years

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5:46 p.m. July 25, 2008

EL CAJON – A Santee mother was sentenced to six years in prison Friday for giving her daughter's friend a deadly dose of methadone and penicillin pills.

Laura Susan Wion, 45, pleaded guilty in June to involuntary manslaughter and child felony abuse in the death of 17-year-old Kelsea Phelps in August 2006.

Wion told a courtroom full of relatives and friends from both families that she loved Kelsea and meant her no harm. She appeared disoriented as she addressed the court.

Her defense attorney, Michael Malowney, asked Superior Court Judge Charles W. Ervin for leniency and a sentence of four years in prison.

Malowney and some of Wion's friends and relatives told the court that Wion was a wonderful mother who would not intentionally hurt anyone. Her attorney portrayed Kelsea as a troubled youth who ran from home and used drugs.

But the judge and prosecutor Chris Lindberg both rebuffed Malowney's arguments.

Lindberg called Wion's comments and statements read on her behalf by relatives and friends as “The Laura Wion show.”

“The fact is the victim would be alive if it weren't for the defendant's actions,” Lindberg said.

Tracy Moe, Kelsea's mother, told the court that “six years is absolutely nothing to give to this woman who killed my daughter ... Kelsea was made out to be a person she truly was not.”

The judge agreed with Moe and Lindberg.

“Justice is blind as it relates to the victim,” he said before he sentenced Wion. “This is a case where the defendant pleaded guilty to the charge,” he said, noting that Wion's decision to give Kelsea the medications was “hardly an accident.”

Kelsea died Aug. 21, 2006, after visiting Wion's daughter. She had complained of a sore throat and other cold symptoms during the visit.

Wion, who had been prescribed methadone and several other medications, gave methadone to the girl.

Kelsea then went to her Santee home and briefly spoke with relatives before she went to bed. Her mother discovered her dead in her bed the next morning when she went to wake Kelsea up for school.

Investigators found 18 methadone pills near Kelsea's bed.

Outside the court, Moe said she was happy Wion was held accountable for her actions.

“I want people to know that I'm not done with this,” Moe said.

She is seeking to introduce a law named after Kelsea that would put notification on methadone bottles advising its dangerous use if not prescribed.

Methadone is commonly prescribed for relief of severe pain and is also used to ease withdrawal symptoms for those addicted to opiates such as heroin.


Teenager charged in overdose death

He dumped woman's body in canyon, authorities say

By Hans Laetz

Correspondent

Friday, November 21, 2008

A 20-year-old Agoura Hills woman overdosed on drugs a friend gave her before she was found dead last summer in a canyon in the Santa Monica Mountains, authorities said Thursday.

Weston Thomas McCahon, 19, of Agoura Hills, has been charged with murder in the death of Kaylin Marie Mathews, whose body was found July 1, said Los Angeles County sheriff's Lt. Dan Rosenberg.

McCahon is in jail with bail set at $1 million. His next court appearance is scheduled for Dec. 19. He pleaded not guilty at his arraignment earlier this month.

According to Rosenberg, Mathews was killed by drugs given to her by McCahon.

Neither Rosenberg nor Los Angeles County Deputy District Attorney Janis Johnson would reveal the type of drugs or say whether the overdose was intentional.

"That will all come out at the preliminary hearing, and we can't disclose anything until then," Johnson said Thursday.

Last summer, sheriff's deputies went to a canyon several miles south of Agoura Hills after receiving a report that a woman's body had been found along Lobo Canyon Road, west of Kanan Road near Troutdale.

At the time, the Los Angeles County coroner had refused to disclose the cause of death.

Sheriff's deputies revealed the identities and the murder case after they brought McCahon into court for arraignment at the Airport Courthouse near Hawthorne, where most criminal cases from western Los Angeles County are now handled.

"We allege that he dumped the body in Lobo Canyon after she died of an overdose from drugs he gave her," Rosenberg said.

Mathews was a 2005 graduate of Indian Hills High School in Calabasas and had worked last spring as a disc jockey.

McCahon graduated in 2007 from Westlake High School. Johnson said he is an Agoura Hills resident. He was arrested in October in South Lake Tahoe as he was bicycling to class at Lake Tahoe Community College.

 

 

 




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