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Danielle cherished family, friends and life. She had her whole life planned out; her husband, number of kids, two dogs and would be a dermatologist, a career where she could help others but have time for her family.
Christi had just enrolled in college. She just began taking First Baptist Church shuttles downtown every Thursday to befriend the homeless. Just chit chatting with them and letting them know they had a friend. In her journals, she was determined to turn her life around and she started by helping others. She volunteered often for the M.U.S.T. Ministries to help set up their clothing shop for the homeless and the children's center. She helped cooked their meals. She helped do their laundry. She wanted to go into a field helping others. She would have changed at least one person's life, for the better, when they thought there was no more hope. She didn't show up last Thursday. She died.
In the months before she was killed, 21-year-old Anke Furber had been acting scared and she seemed to know she was in danger. Several days after Furber's charred remains were discovered in a small vineyard in Norcross, Anke's mom, Ria, found a note in Anke's desk at home in Marietta. In it, Anke seemed to foreshadow her own death. She wrote, "My parents would surely grieve the loss of their wonderful daughter whose craziness would soon lead to her slaughter". Ria isnt sure exactly when the note was written, but believes it was written in a close time frame to the actual murder.
At 22 years old, Levi had goals and ambitions of being a business owner, a husband and a father. He loved his family and friends with everything in him and would do anything for you. His shyness and manners we're a shining attribute to who he was. Unfortunately, Levi befriended someone who for nearly three years took advantage of his kindness and when asked to leave his home, he killed him. If he would have just walked out the door as asked, Levi would still be here today. We'll never know all the wonderful things that Levi would have accomplished, but we know he was a "Friend" till the end.
Ephraim was 21 yrs old when he prematurely transitioned to the other side. He was a very warm hearted young man. And was always available to help friends and family. As his cousin Ben said about him: "You can lay a 1,000. on the table and know completely that Ephraim would have never taken it". He spent most of his days at Antique World in Clarence , NY which was owned and operated by his Uncle. That was my sons world. A world he will no longer be able to participate in. He is sorely missed by his family and friends.
Mark suffered a brain injury at the age of 19 the night of a high school prom. Mark died at the age of 25. Life was hard for Mark, he lived an aphasic life. Mark struggled to relearn his alphabet and to speak again. Neuro rehab, drug rehab, jails, institutions and death. Mark was disabled and a fighter all at the same time. College, heavy equipment operator, volunteering were all part of these six years. Mark loved kids and wished he had one. Due to the selfish reasoning of his so called friends, Mark will never be able to achieve his dreams that he fought so hard for. Mark's struggle is over !! PEACE..........
His friends describe him as a kind, warm hearted, full of energy, always smiling, and a very silly young man. They also said that whenever Sean walked into a room that he had the ability lighting up the room because he was full of life and energy! He loved his dad, his mom, and his sister very much. He had a very special bond with his great grandma Efford and his great aunt Charlene whom also up in heaven with him. A warm hug from Sean was just another way that he showed his affection to his family and friends
When Cayte was in the middle school she was on the track team, she was a cheerleader for the Nor-Roc Vikings, she was on a soccer team, and she loved attending the dances at the Sad Cafe. When she went to high school, all of those activities stopped. The sad reason was because she was too old. All the kids have, once they reach high school, are the woods and the homes of friends when the parents are at work. If she had activities to do after school when she went to high school, maybe this wouldn't have happened.
From her birth to her passing Katty touched so many lives. Not only did her family have the joy of watching her grow from a 6 pound baby girl to a beautiful young woman, but so many others did as well. The lives she touched are too many to fathom. Her beauty and grace preceded her where ever she went. Her heart was made of fine gold and she cared for others always before herself. She was not just special to all of us but to the Lord who saw fit to call her home at such a young age. Her mansion was ready! When we think of Katty now we all can be at peace because we know she is with her Lord, never to face this harsh world we live in day to day. She is with us always when we remember her smile, her touch, and her kind words. We all had the pleasure of being touched by an ANGEL!
We want our son's name to be Remembered and to bring hope and joy out of something that has been the darkest and heartbreaking days of our families life. JP was very out spoken and we have decided to be that way on this site and to be his voice about the drug companies and the public official's that sit back and do nothing. If we could save one person from what our family had to go Through and is still going Through, it would be all worth it We will not stop until the truth gets out. We want his memory to live on.
Time has gone by so quickly and it seems like we haven't seen your face in forever. Our hearts are broken, our tears flow so freely and our souls feel empty. Michael, you left us with so many happy memories but the memories can never take your place. We know you and your uncle Sam are saving a place for those who cherished you the most.
Two weeks before he died, Chuck called me on the phone. He was excited to tell me he was joining the National Guard. He had begun to think about being a History Teacher. He planned to attend school after basic training. He also mentioned a new girlfriend. He was pretty crazy about her but wanted to give things a little more time before making her "meet the parents". Still, we made plans to meet for lunch once July wound down. He thought we might all get together and told me not to worry, he had a job and would help pay the check. The first time I met the young lady he was so crazy about was as she cried herself senseless over his casket. She laid a broken heart chain and necklace across his hands. She wore the mating half around her slender neck. Her courage in court helped to solidify the deal that sent a drug dealer to prison. I hope she, and Chuck's other friends, make the right decision and swear off drug use so we may never see their faces on these pages.
Everyone ever touched by Miranda. This will be a tribute to the life she lived. She was the most remarkable and inspirational woman I have ever known. I was in awe of my own daughter. Even as her mother, her beauty took my breath away, and as she walked this earth from her crawling stages to adulthood her beauty from the inside amazed me. Miranda loved about every living thing and each friend she had she made her relationship with them special and unique.
Jamie was a very loving son, brother, grandson, nephew, boyfriend and friend.. Most importantly he was the best father anyone could have asked for.. Even though he was only 16 when he was taken away from us from his so called friend, he did everything for his daughter and mother of his daughter  that he had asked to marry him when he turns 18.. Jamie was the type of kid that would take his shirt off his back for anyone that needs it..  Jamie died on April 23, 2008.. If only his so called friend (29 yrs old), his mother and the other people at the home called 911 instead of waiting 3 hours, he would still be here with us today.. Jamie's dad passed away Nov 2005 and he had a hard time dealing with loosing his father and could not believe he was gone.. Well now Jamie is at home with his dad..Until we meet again... I am proud of you my son..Love you always and forever, Mommy
Kaylin Marie Mathews was born on a Tuesday March 1, 1988. Kaylin was my oldest child and my only daughter. She could play the piano, guitar, and drums and loved to sing. She had been "spinning records" the last few years and loved to mix music. She had been working as a d.j. at the time of her death and was very good. Kaylin was an only child for 71/2 years. She has one brother and one sister. She was a talented writer. She made jewelry and she could draw. There was nothing that my baby couldn't do, if she wanted to. Kaylin was left to die in a ravine on June 30, 2008. She was found on July 1, 2008. Her date of death is listed as a Tuesday July 1, 2008. She was 20 years old. I miss her every second of every day. The world lost an amazing talent and an amazing young woman. I lost a part of my heart.
R.J. was truly a blessing in our lives. He was the kind of son that most parents only dream of having. He always respected and obeyed his parents and never got in trouble. RJ was never in trouble in his life RJ always called home to let us know where he was and when he would be home. When he was missing and we couldn't reach him on his cell phone, we knew immediately something terrible was wrong. This is a nightmare that no parent should have to go through and we are living it. Our concern is not what we are going through, but what our son had to go through in his final moments of life.
William Michael Grandchamp better known as Billy, was born Nov 7,1979. HE was a only child. Billy had many friends. Billy often told his friends that his MOM was his best friend. Billy liked to collect sports attire like jerseys and sports caps.Everything he wore had to match. He was meticulous with his clothing, car, and home. Although, Billy had no children of his own he loved children. He told me his greatest wish was to find a good girl and settle down and have a family. That seemed to be very important to him. Even at a young age he had a gift with children. Billy's friends have always commented on how good he was with their children and how their children loved him. Billy was loved by so many people. He had over 800 friends and family members at his wake. Billy will be greatly missed by all his family and friends.
Chase lived life spontaneously with the freedom of a butterfly – a free spirit & soul – no one could hold him down, except his baby girl. She was his LIFE. There wasn’t anything he wouldn’t do for her, including getting clean. Chase was clean 1.5 yrs, after 6 months in residential rehab in New Orleans, continued with NA meetings, substance abuse group counseling, and sought out a Navy recruiter who told him all he would have to do to be eligible. He seemed to be on his way, until he fell off the wagon 12 days out of jail. Turning to heroin again to deal with stress was the mistake of his life. “Chase’s Story” is shared with you on his main page. Thanks for taking time to read it. Sincere and heartfelt thanks to the FDLFD Family for taking us under their wings. “They will sing me to them, and I will hear.” ~RIP Chase~4evrYng~1985-2009
Katelynn Lillian Porter, 16, of West Elgin, was killed in a car crash on Dunborough Rd. in Elgin County. “In loving memory of Katelynn Porter. 12/12/09. 9:40 p.m.” is written between two hearts on the roadside memorial, a makeshift cross. Porter was a student at West Elgin secondary school, where officials are trying to come to grips with the news of her death, especially so close to Christmas.
Tony passed away 10 days after his 16th birthday. He asked permission to spend the night at his friends and I told him yes. I told him" I love you" and he replied "I love you too Mom. Tony was the kid who wanted to make everyone laugh. He had such a wonderful sense of humor and a big heart. He would talk to his friends for hours trying to help them solve their problems. He was a loving big brother, and a wonderful son. He would help you with anything without even being asked. Tony was an extremely intelligent child. He was always placed in advanced classes. A week before he passed we received a letter from Columbine informing us that Tony was nominated to participate in their advanced English Program. He had a gift for writing stories.
She loved all things technical and mechanical with her older brother Ian and fashion and decorating days with her older sister Genevieve. She loved Gothic country art, the workings of the human body, video games, driving and her new tattoo machine. She loved swimming and surfing. She loved all things living and loved her dog Timpleton and her parrot Thermopolis. She had a strong heart and soul, was an independent and progressive thinker, open minded and a will power like no one else. Her favorite place to go was Barnes and Noble.
Vivianna Satterfield was 15 years old! Vivi was the type of young lady that put other people in front of herself. She would always say "Peace and Love".
Kelli Laine Lewis is my only daughter. Kelli died when she was 18 after attending a party hosted by 3 adults who offered a $5.00 entry fee to come and drink all you wanted. A pretty tempting offer for teens not old enough to buy alcohol.
Growing up – she had it all. She was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She wShe was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She was always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing. Taylor was a huge fan of Tyler Perry’s Madea. She owned every play and knew every word to every gospel song in the plays. She would sing them at the top of her lungs to anyone that would listen. as always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing.
He went out THE FIRST TIME to celebrate being "LEGAL" with a creep he considered a friend (even though we warned him this guy was not a true friend). My son did not drive so he was picked up about ten thirty. Even when it was obvious my son was having difficulties this creep brought him to his own house , which is 4 houses away for a few hours, and dropped him off here at home in the middle of the night WITHOUT KNOCKING OR CALLING OR WAKING US UP. We found Ben in his bed the next morning when we tried to wake him.

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Sumner man stands trial for murder

Janelle Penny Photo, Defendant Lawrence Hamby confers with attorney Michael Bandy during a recess on Monday. Hamby is accused of killing Paul "Frank" McKinney of Sumner in 2006.

by Janelle Penny, news@waverlynewspapers.com
Published:
Tuesday, January 13, 2009 9:14 AM CST
Testimony in the first-degree murder trial of Lawrence Hamby continued Monday.

The Sumner 27-year-old is accused of beating and strangling neighbor Paul “Frank” McKinney during the night of Jan. 17, 2006.

On Monday, Hamby’s ex-girlfriend, Jennifer Meana, testified that Hamby attempted to camouflage McKinney’s death as a drug overdose.

Meana, who lived in Sumner with Hamby at the time, told the jury that her then-boyfriend had gone to McKinney’s home to play video games with McKinney’s son, Nathan, who also lived at Frank’s residence.

She felt a severe migraine coming on and called the McKinney house so Hamby could drive her to the hospital for treatment, but Hamby wasn’t there, Meana said.

No one knew where Hamby was, Nate McKinney told the jury previously. McKinney rode with Meana to Community Memorial Hospital in Sumner and stayed through her treatment.

When the two returned to the Sumner residence Meana and Hamby shared, Meana saw missed calls on her cell phone from an unknown number, which Nate McKinney recognized as his father’s home.

About 15 minutes later, Meana said, Hamby arrived and was “frantic.”

“He was driving Frank McKinney’s Blazer,” Meana testified. “[He said to Nate McKinney], ‘Your dad’s dead, dude. Your dad’s dead.’”

Meana said Lawrence told her and Nate that while they were at the hospital, he heard “a commotion downstairs” and walked down to discover two men assaulting Frank and calling him “a snitch.”

“Lawrence said, ‘I jumped into it and hit one of them and they ran out the door,’” Meana told the court. “Nate wanted to know, ‘Should I call the cops? What do I do?’ Lawrence said, ‘Don’t call the cops because they’ll think you did it... We’ll figure this out... We’ll handle this. We’ll take care of it.' Nate looked like he was scared, like he was about to panic.”

The two went to McKinney’s house for about 15 minutes to survey the scene, Meana said. When they returned, she added, Hamby went into the bedroom and pocketed four of the Thorazine tablets Meana takes for anxiety.

“He told me he wanted to go make it look like a drug overdose, a drug dealer gone bad,” Meana said. “...He was going to shoot him up... I don’t remember if it was Nate or Lawrence, went down in our basement and brought up a sack. There was needles and all kinds of stuff in there. Lawrence took one of the needles and had the Thorazine in his pocket, and they brought them over to Nate’s house.”

The men went in Meana and Hamby’s living room to talk, said Meana, adding that she stayed in the kitchen and made something to eat.

“I know Lawrence told Nate to just stay here and go home tomorrow, go home the next day,” Meana testified. “Just walk in and say you spent the night at our house on the couch... Say, ‘I just walked in and found my dad dead,’ and call 911 the next day.”

The defense sought to cast doubt on Meana’s recollection of the night’s events, questioning her repeatedly about the lithium, Thorazine and sleeping medications she took daily and her history of using methamphetamine.

After McKinney and Hamby returned from the second visit to Frank McKinney’s house, Meana said, she took a Thorazine and a prescription sleep aid and went to bed.

“Do you recall what you told me during the deposition?” asked defense attorney Michael Bandy, handing Meana a copy of the deposition she gave on April 23, 2008. “What was it?”

Meana answered, “That occasionally, there were some lapses in my memory... I can say I was talking like where I put the car keys and my purse and things like that. And if I remembered to check the mail. Small things, that’s what I meant.”

Bandy quizzed Meana in detail about the night of Jan. 17, 2006, and the interview she gave to Sumner and state law enforcement officials the next day, where she told authorities Lawrence was at a friend’s Fairbank home fixing a computer.

On Friday, A.J. McKinney, Nathan’s uncle, said he left work immediately after learning of his brother’s death on Jan. 18 and picked Nathan up from the Sumner police station, where he was first questioned about Frank’s death. Nathan stayed at A.J. McKinney’s home that night, where he was grilled by visiting family members, and used A.J.’s cell phone to call a detective the next morning, A.J. McKinney testified.

“He said he couldn’t cover for that dude anymore,” McKinney said.

A.J. McKinney’s wife asked Nathan if he planned to stick around for his father’s funeral, A.J. testified. He said Nathan was not crying and did not look distraught.

“Did he look like he had a care about anything?” asked defense attorney Mike Lanigan.

“He did not,” A.J. McKinney answered.

Also testifying Friday were Department of Criminal Investigations officers Jeff Jacobson and Bill Basler, who worked on the case in 2006.

Jacobson said he interviewed Nathan McKinney shortly after the incident and challenged his credibility several times.

He and Basler described evidence collected at Frank McKinney’s home, including a bloodstained newspaper found on his doorstep and DNA samples collected from Nathan McKinney.

Testimony will continue today, barring severe weather. The trial could last up to three weeks, County Attorney Kasey Wadding said.

Hamby faces life in prison if convicted.

Editor's note: This is the first installment in a series examining the murder trial of Lawrence Hamby.



Ex-girlfriend testifies in Sumner man’s murder trial

Detective Dave McDonald (above) escorts Lawrence Hamby back to the Bremer County Jail after trial proceedings.

Published:
Wednesday, January 14, 2009 2:06 PM CST
WAVERLY - Testimony in the first-degree murder trial of Lawrence Hamby continued Monday at the Bremer County Courthouse.

The Sumner 27-year-old is accused of beating and strangling neighbor Paul “Frank” McKinney during the night of Jan. 17, 2006.

On Monday, Hamby’s ex-girlfriend, Jennifer Meana, testified that Hamby attempted to camouflage McKinney’s death as a drug overdose.

Meana, who lived in Sumner with Hamby at the time, told the jury that her then-boyfriend had gone to McKinney’s home to play video games with McKinney’s son, Nathan, who also lived at Frank’s residence.

She felt a severe migraine coming on and called the McKinney house so Hamby could drive her to the hospital for treatment, but Hamby wasn’t there, Meana said.

No one knew where Hamby was, Nate McKinney told the jury previously. McKinney rode with Meana to Community Memorial Hospital in Sumner and stayed through her treatment.

When the two returned to the Sumner residence Meana and Hamby shared, Meana saw missed calls on her cell phone from an unknown number, which Nate McKinney recognized as his father’s home.

About 15 minutes later, Meana said, Hamby arrived and was “frantic.”

“He was driving Frank McKinney’s Blazer,” Meana testified. “[He said to Nate McKinney], ‘Your dad’s dead, dude. Your dad’s dead.’”

Meana said Lawrence told her and Nate that while they were at the hospital, he heard “a commotion downstairs” and walked down to discover two men assaulting Frank and calling him “a snitch.”

“Lawrence said, ‘I jumped into it and hit one of them and they ran out the door,’” Meana told the court. “Nate wanted to know, ‘Should I call the cops? What do I do?’ Lawrence said, ‘Don’t call the cops because they’ll think you did it... We’ll figure this out... We’ll handle this. We’ll take care of it.’ Nate looked like he was scared, like he was about to panic.”

The two went to McKinney’s house for about 15 minutes to survey the scene, Meana said. When they returned, she added, Hamby went into the bedroom and pocketed four of the Thorazine tablets Meana takes for anxiety.

“He told me he wanted to go make it look like a drug overdose, a drug dealer gone bad,” Meana said. “...He was going to shoot him up... I don’t remember if it was Nate or Lawrence, went down in our basement and brought up a sack. There was needles and all kinds of stuff in there. Lawrence took one of the needles and had the Thorazine in his pocket, and they brought them over to Nate’s house.”

The men went in Meana and Hamby’s living room to talk, said Meana, adding that she stayed in the kitchen and made something to eat.

“I know Lawrence told Nate to just stay here and go home tomorrow, go home the next day,” Meana testified. “Just walk in and say you spent the night at our house on the couch... Say, ‘I just walked in and found my dad dead,’ and call 911 the next day.”

The defense sought to cast doubt on Meana’s recollection of the night’s events, questioning her repeatedly about the lithium, Thorazine and sleeping medications she took daily and her history of using methamphetamine.

After McKinney and Hamby returned from the second visit to Frank McKinney’s house, Meana said, she took a Thorazine and a prescription sleep aid and went to bed.

“Do you recall what you told me during the deposition?” asked defense attorney Michael Bandy, handing Meana a copy of the deposition she gave on April 23, 2008. “What was it?”

Meana answered, “That occasionally, there were some lapses in my memory... I can say I was talking like where I put the car keys and my purse and things like that. And if I remembered to check the mail. Small things, that’s what I meant.”

Bandy quizzed Meana in detail about the night of Jan. 17, 2006, and the interview she gave to Sumner and state law enforcement officials the next day, where she told authorities Lawrence was at a friend’s Fairbank home fixing a computer.

On Friday, A.J. McKinney, Nathan’s uncle, said he left work immediately after learning of his brother’s death on Jan. 18 and picked Nathan up from the Sumner police station, where he was first questioned about Frank’s death. Nathan stayed at A.J. McKinney’s home that night, where he was grilled by visiting family members, and used A.J.’s cell phone to call a detective the next morning, A.J. McKinney testified.

“He said he couldn’t cover for that dude anymore,” McKinney said.

A.J. McKinney’s wife asked Nathan if he planned to stick around for his father’s funeral, A.J. testified. He said Nathan was not crying and did not look distraught.

“Did he look like he had a care about anything?” asked defense attorney Mike Lanigan.

“He did not,” A.J. McKinney answered.

Also testifying Friday were Department of Criminal Investigations officers Jeff Jacobson and Bill Basler, who worked on the case in 2006.

Jacobson said he interviewed Nathan McKinney shortly after the incident and challenged his credibility several times.

He and Basler described evidence collected at Frank McKinney’s home, including a bloodstained newspaper found on his doorstep and DNA samples collected from Nathan McKinney.

The trial could last up to three weeks, County Attorney Kasey Wadding said.

Hamby faces life in prison if convicted.

Editor’s note: This is the first installment in a series examining the murder trial of Lawrence Hamby.


Testimony heard in Bremer murder case

Thursday, January 8, 2009 12:01 PM CST


Testimony began in the first-degree murder trial of Lawrence Hamby, center, at the Bremer County Courthouse Monday, Jan. 7, 2009, in Waverly. Here defense lawyers Michael Lanigan, left, and Michael Bandy confer during opening remarks.
(RICK CHASE / COURIER STAFF PHOTOGRAPHER)



By JOSH NELSON, Courier Staff Writer

WAVERLY --- He didn't lead a charmed life. There was heavy drinking and illicit drug use. But that didn't mean Paul "Frank" McKinney should have been killed, attorneys said Wednesday.

Authorities found McKinney, 52, of Sumner, dead in his home in January 2006. Just who killed him was a matter of debate during testimony in the first-degree murder trial of Lawrence Hamby, 25, of Sumner.

"Frank McKinney wasn't a perfect man, but I think we can decide at this point in the trial, he didn't deserve to die," said Michael Bandy, one of Hamby's defense attorneys.

Bremer County Attorney Kasey Wadding said during opening statements that Hamby, who is friends with McKinney's son, Nathan, beat and strangled McKinney during the night. Hamby allegedly told Nathan McKinney at about midnight that two men beat his father up.

After the murder, Hamby convinced Nathan McKinney and Hamby's girlfriend to concoct a cover story. Hamby told them he was afraid the killing would get pinned on them, Wadding said.

McKinney and Hamby allegedly injected the body with Thorazine, a painkiller prescribed to Hamby's girlfriend for migraines, to throw off investigators and didn't call police for nearly 12 hours.

Investigators later recovered a belt in Hamby's house, which is within walking distance of McKinney's home, hidden in a cupboard. The belt had McKinney's DNA on it. Hamby also told several inconsistent stories to investigators, Wadding added.

Defense attorneys countered blame isn't on the right person, alleging Hamby had no motive to kill McKinney. Hamby also never made any statements about killing McKinney, either to McKinney's son or to police, Bandy argued.

"We don't think there's enough evidence to show that my client, Lawrence Hamby, killed Frank McKinney," Bandy said. "So the question becomes who killed Frank McKinney?"

Bandy accused Nathan

McKinney of assaulting his father, stating there was "no love lost" between the men.

Nathan McKinney told jurors he first met his father when he was 16 years old and living in Lafayette, Ind. His mother was in a nursing home because of failing health and he was moving from place to place at the time.

"That was the first time of me even seeing him," Nathan McKinney said.

Witnesses told jurors McKinney was afraid of his son because of past fights, and a friend, Michelle Otterbein, said McKinney stayed at her house occasionally because of the incidents.

"It wasn't good," Otterbein said.

She also recalled McKinney had once had an argument with Hamby.

McKinney was a fixture at TA's Lounge and was a welder at Lifeline Emergency Vehicles, a firm that manufactures ambulances. Friends recalled him being good-natured. Otterbein said McKinney could have been a "functional alcoholic."

The night of his death, witnesses said they saw McKinney in a good mood after a long day at work. At about 9:30 p.m., he went home.

Otterbein said the next time she saw McKinney, he was lying on his living room and was not breathing. She said she was called to McKinney's house after Nathan McKinney phoned her husband to say McKinney was dead.

Roger Bahe, former director of Sumner EMS, testified he was dispatched at about 1 p.m. He said he saw signs of an assault, including blood in the corner of McKinney's mouth.

Photos shown in court showed McKinney's face and neck covered in red marks. His glasses were next to him on the floor. A preliminary examination showed he had been dead for several hours, said Dr. Lee Fagre, the Bremer County medical examiner.

Nathan McKinney's testimony continues today in Bremer County District Court. The trial is expected to last three weeks, Wadding said.

Contact Josh Nelson at (319) 291-1565 or josh.nelson@wcfcourier.com.




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We long to say our child's name

The one you want unspoken

So you don't call because you're afraid

Of we, who are the broken.

 

By: Kim Lasater

Mother of Kaylin Mathews

Copyright 2009