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Danielle cherished family, friends and life. She had her whole life planned
out; her husband, number of kids, two dogs and would be a dermatologist, a career
where she could help others but have time for her family.
Christi had just enrolled in college. She just began taking First Baptist Church
shuttles downtown every Thursday to befriend the homeless. Just chit chatting
with them and letting them know they had a friend. In her journals, she was
determined to turn her life around and she started by helping others. She volunteered
often for the M.U.S.T. Ministries to help set up their clothing shop for the
homeless and the children's center. She helped cooked their meals. She helped
do their laundry. She wanted to go into a field helping others. She would have
changed at least one person's life, for the better, when they thought there
was no more hope. She didn't show up last Thursday. She died.
In the months before she was killed, 21-year-old Anke Furber had been acting
scared and she seemed to know she was in danger. Several days after Furber's
charred remains were discovered in a small vineyard in Norcross, Anke's mom,
Ria, found a note in Anke's desk at home in Marietta. In it, Anke seemed to
foreshadow her own death. She wrote, "My parents would surely grieve the loss
of their wonderful daughter whose craziness would soon lead to her slaughter".
Ria isnt sure exactly when the note was written, but believes it was written
in a close time frame to the actual murder.
At 22 years old, Levi had goals and ambitions of being a business owner, a husband
and a father. He loved his family and friends with everything in him and would
do anything for you. His shyness and manners we're a shining attribute to who
he was. Unfortunately, Levi befriended someone who for nearly three years took
advantage of his kindness and when asked to leave his home, he killed him. If
he would have just walked out the door as asked, Levi would still be here today.
We'll never know all the wonderful things that Levi would have accomplished,
but we know he was a "Friend" till the end.
Ephraim was 21 yrs old when he prematurely transitioned to the other side. He
was a very warm hearted young man. And was always available to help friends
and family. As his cousin Ben said about him: "You can lay a 1,000. on the table
and know completely that Ephraim would have never taken it". He spent most of
his days at Antique World in Clarence , NY which was owned and operated by his
Uncle. That was my sons world. A world he will no longer be able to participate
in. He is sorely missed by his family and friends.
Mark suffered a brain injury at the age of 19 the night of a high school prom.
Mark died at the age of 25. Life was hard for Mark, he lived an aphasic life.
Mark struggled to relearn his alphabet and to speak again. Neuro rehab, drug
rehab, jails, institutions and death. Mark was disabled and a fighter all at
the same time. College, heavy equipment operator, volunteering were all part
of these six years. Mark loved kids and wished he had one. Due to the selfish
reasoning of his so called friends, Mark will never be able to achieve his dreams
that he fought so hard for. Mark's struggle is over !! PEACE..........
His friends describe him as a kind, warm hearted, full of energy, always smiling,
and a very silly young man. They also said that whenever Sean walked into a
room that he had the ability lighting up the room because he was full of life
and energy! He loved his dad, his mom, and his sister very much. He had a very
special bond with his great grandma Efford and his great aunt Charlene whom
also up in heaven with him. A warm hug from Sean was just another way that he
showed his affection to his family and friends
When Cayte was in the middle school she was on the track team, she was a cheerleader
for the Nor-Roc Vikings, she was on a soccer team, and she loved attending the
dances at the Sad Cafe. When she went to high school, all of those activities
stopped. The sad reason was because she was too old. All the kids have, once
they reach high school, are the woods and the homes of friends when the parents
are at work. If she had activities to do after school when she went to high
school, maybe this wouldn't have happened.
From her birth to her passing Katty touched so many lives. Not only did her
family have the joy of watching her grow from a 6 pound baby girl to a beautiful
young woman, but so many others did as well. The lives she touched are too many
to fathom. Her beauty and grace preceded her where ever she went. Her heart
was made of fine gold and she cared for others always before herself. She was
not just special to all of us but to the Lord who saw fit to call her home at
such a young age. Her mansion was ready! When we think of Katty now we all can
be at peace because we know she is with her Lord, never to face this harsh world
we live in day to day. She is with us always when we remember her smile, her
touch, and her kind words. We all had the pleasure of being touched by an ANGEL!
We want our son's name to be Remembered and to bring hope and joy out of something
that has been the darkest and heartbreaking days of our families life. JP was
very out spoken and we have decided to be that way on this site and to be his
voice about the drug companies and the public official's that sit back and do
nothing. If we could save one person from what our family had to go Through
and is still going Through, it would be all worth it We will not stop until
the truth gets out. We want his memory to live on.
Time has gone by so quickly and it seems like we haven't seen your face in forever.
Our hearts are broken, our tears flow so freely and our souls feel empty. Michael,
you left us with so many happy memories but the memories can never take your
place. We know you and your uncle Sam are saving a place for those who cherished
you the most.
Two weeks before he died, Chuck called me on the phone. He was excited to tell
me he was joining the National Guard. He had begun to think about being a History
Teacher. He planned to attend school after basic training. He also mentioned
a new girlfriend. He was pretty crazy about her but wanted to give things a
little more time before making her "meet the parents". Still, we made plans
to meet for lunch once July wound down. He thought we might all get together
and told me not to worry, he had a job and would help pay the check. The first
time I met the young lady he was so crazy about was as she cried herself senseless
over his casket. She laid a broken heart chain and necklace across his hands.
She wore the mating half around her slender neck. Her courage in court helped
to solidify the deal that sent a drug dealer to prison. I hope she, and Chuck's
other friends, make the right decision and swear off drug use so we may never
see their faces on these pages.
Everyone ever touched by Miranda. This will be a tribute to the life she lived.
She was the most remarkable and inspirational woman I have ever known. I was
in awe of my own daughter. Even as her mother, her beauty took my breath away,
and as she walked this earth from her crawling stages to adulthood her beauty
from the inside amazed me. Miranda loved about every living thing and each friend
she had she made her relationship with them special and unique.
Jamie was a very loving son, brother, grandson, nephew, boyfriend and friend..
Most importantly he was the best father anyone could have asked for.. Even though
he was only 16 when he was taken away from us from his so called friend, he
did everything for his daughter and mother of his daughter that he had
asked to marry him when he turns 18.. Jamie was the type of kid that would take
his shirt off his back for anyone that needs it.. Jamie died on April
23, 2008.. If only his so called friend (29 yrs old), his mother and the other
people at the home called 911 instead of waiting 3 hours, he would still be
here with us today.. Jamie's dad passed away Nov 2005 and he had a hard time
dealing with loosing his father and could not believe he was gone.. Well now
Jamie is at home with his dad..Until we meet again... I am proud of you my son..Love
you always and forever, Mommy
Kaylin Marie Mathews was born on a Tuesday March 1, 1988. Kaylin was my oldest
child and my only daughter. She could play the piano, guitar, and drums and
loved to sing. She had been "spinning records" the last few years and loved
to mix music. She had been working as a d.j. at the time of her death and was
very good. Kaylin was an only child for 71/2 years. She has one brother and
one sister. She was a talented writer. She made jewelry and she could draw.
There was nothing that my baby couldn't do, if she wanted to. Kaylin was left
to die in a ravine on June 30, 2008. She was found on July 1, 2008. Her date
of death is listed as a Tuesday July 1, 2008. She was 20 years old. I miss her
every second of every day. The world lost an amazing talent and an amazing young
woman. I lost a part of my heart.
R.J. was truly a blessing in our lives. He was the kind of son that most parents
only dream of having. He always respected and obeyed his parents and never got
in trouble. RJ was never in trouble in his life RJ always called home to let
us know where he was and when he would be home. When he was missing and we couldn't
reach him on his cell phone, we knew immediately something terrible was wrong.
This is a nightmare that no parent should have to go through and we are living
it. Our concern is not what we are going through, but what our son had to go
through in his final moments of life.
William Michael Grandchamp better known as Billy, was born Nov 7,1979. HE was
a only child. Billy had many friends. Billy often told his friends that his
MOM was his best friend. Billy liked to collect sports attire like jerseys and
sports caps.Everything he wore had to match. He was meticulous with his clothing,
car, and home. Although, Billy had no children of his own he loved children.
He told me his greatest wish was to find a good girl and settle down and have
a family. That seemed to be very important to him. Even at a young age he had
a gift with children. Billy's friends have always commented on how good he was
with their children and how their children loved him. Billy was loved by so
many people. He had over 800 friends and family members at his wake. Billy will
be greatly missed by all his family and friends.
Chase lived life spontaneously with the freedom of a butterfly – a free spirit
& soul – no one could hold him down, except his baby girl. She was his LIFE.
There wasn’t anything he wouldn’t do for her, including getting clean. Chase
was clean 1.5 yrs, after 6 months in residential rehab in New Orleans, continued
with NA meetings, substance abuse group counseling, and sought out a Navy recruiter
who told him all he would have to do to be eligible. He seemed to be on his
way, until he fell off the wagon 12 days out of jail. Turning to heroin again
to deal with stress was the mistake of his life. “Chase’s Story” is shared with
you on his main page. Thanks for taking time to read it. Sincere and heartfelt
thanks to the FDLFD Family for taking us under their wings. “They will sing
me to them, and I will hear.” ~RIP Chase~4evrYng~1985-2009
Katelynn Lillian Porter, 16, of West Elgin, was killed in a car crash on Dunborough
Rd. in Elgin County. “In loving memory of Katelynn Porter. 12/12/09. 9:40 p.m.”
is written between two hearts on the roadside memorial, a makeshift cross. Porter
was a student at West Elgin secondary school, where officials are trying to
come to grips with the news of her death, especially so close to Christmas.
Tony passed away 10 days after his 16th birthday. He asked permission to spend the night at his friends and I told him yes. I told him" I love you" and he replied "I love you too Mom. Tony was the kid who wanted to make everyone laugh. He had such a wonderful sense of humor and a big heart. He would talk to his friends for hours trying to help them solve their problems. He was a loving big brother, and a wonderful son. He would help you with anything without even being asked. Tony was an extremely intelligent child. He was always placed in advanced classes. A week before he passed we received a letter from Columbine informing us that Tony was nominated to participate in their advanced English Program. He had a gift for writing stories.
She loved all things technical and mechanical with her older brother Ian and fashion and decorating days with her older sister Genevieve. She loved Gothic country art, the workings of the human body, video games, driving and her new tattoo machine. She loved swimming and surfing. She loved all things living and loved her dog Timpleton and her parrot Thermopolis. She had a strong heart and soul, was an independent and progressive thinker, open minded and a will power like no one else. Her favorite place to go was Barnes and Noble.
Vivianna Satterfield was 15 years old! Vivi was the type of young lady that put other people in front of herself. She would always say "Peace and Love".
Kelli Laine Lewis is my only daughter. Kelli died when she was 18 after attending a party hosted by 3 adults who offered a $5.00 entry fee to come and drink all you wanted. A pretty tempting offer for teens not old enough to buy alcohol.
Growing up – she had it all. She was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She wShe was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She was always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing. Taylor was a huge fan of Tyler Perry’s Madea. She owned every play and knew every word to every gospel song in the plays. She would sing them at the top of her lungs to anyone that would listen. as always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing.
He went out THE FIRST TIME to celebrate being "LEGAL" with a creep he considered a friend (even though we warned him this guy was not a true friend). My son did not drive so he was picked up about ten thirty. Even when it was obvious my son was having difficulties this creep brought him to his own house , which is 4 houses away for a few hours, and dropped him off here at home in the middle of the night WITHOUT KNOCKING OR CALLING OR WAKING US UP. We found Ben in his bed the next morning when we tried to wake him.
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Police need a lot of
help in this case -- first of all they need names -- the people
that Christi was with the night she overdosed.
Police say an anonymous tip in
this case can earn up to a $2,000 reward. You do not have to leave
your name.
Call the Crimestoppers Tipline at 404-577-TIPS.
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Family offers $10K reward in case
Published: 07/11/2008
By Kristal Dixon
Cherokee Tribune Staff Writer
For almost three years, D.D. Flynn of Woodstock has worked
tirelessly to see those responsible for her daughter's fatal
drug overdose brought to justice.
Now, Mrs. Flynn is receiving the help of the Woodstock Police
Department.
The department is teaming up with Mrs. Flynn to offer a $10,000
reward to anyone who provides evidence that leads to the arrest
and conviction of the people involved in Christi Michele Nowak's
death.
Christi, 20, suffered a cardiac arrest on the bedroom floor in
her Woodstock home on Oct. 1, 2005.
She was transported to WellStar Kennestone Hospital in Marietta
and was pronounced brain dead on Oct. 5.
Mrs. Flynn said her daughter had a seizure because of a mixture
of cocaine, GHB and chloroform in her system.
"When my daughter passed, she bequeathed me her fighting
spirit," Mrs. Flynn said as to why she is seeking justice for
her daughter.
The Woodstock Police Department initially ruled the death an
accidental overdose, but with the persistence of Mrs. Flynn, the
force decided to reopen the case.
"D.D. has been rather diligent and tenacious in pushing for
someone to be held accountable," Police Chief Ric Moss said.
Moss said when he joined the force as chief in September of
2006, he decided there were "some things that needed to be
looked at again."
Mrs. Flynn said recent cases of people being held accountable in
drug overdose cases gave her the inspiration to hunt down
potential suppliers of drugs to Christi.
She said she believes someone was in the house the night Christi
suffered the cardiac arrest and had supplied her with the drugs.
A statute is in place that states if someone commits a felony
resulting in the death of another, then that person is in
violation of the law.
In Christi's case, the perpetrator would be charged with the
violation of controlled substance act. Even if the person was
not in possession of the drugs, he or she would be charged as an
accomplice, Moss said.
However, there are potential hurdles in cases that involve drug
overdoses.
The district attorney would have to prove that a person was
responsible for the death, Moss said.
Also, people involved in cases such as these tend to be
"transients," and are hard to track down, he added.
Moss said the information that they've received from Christi's
friends so far has been via the Internet.
"With that, we are dealing with screen names," he said, adding
that Christi's friends are more willing to talk to her mother
than the police.
Mrs. Flynn said her main goal is to reach out to other families
who have faced similar circumstances.
"I want the law known, and I want to know what happened to my
daughter on that last night," she said.
Christi, Mrs. Flynn said, was beginning to get her life back on
track. She had just enrolled in college and was involved at
First Baptist Woodstock.
Most of all, Mrs. Flynn said Christi was a caring person who
would do anything for her friends.
"She was extremely loving and she loved her brother [Brent],"
she said.
Moss said the department would keep the case open as long as
they receive viable information.
He added the department as a whole feels Mrs. Flynn's pain and
wants to "make sure justice is done."
"As dedicated professionals, we want to make sure we do the job
to the best of our ability," he said.
kdixon@cherokeetribune.com
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Clues Sought in Cold Murder Case
Reported By: Jerry
Carnes
Last Modified: 9/28/2006 12:23:49 PM
Gwinnett County police are reaching out to the public,
hoping to generate new clues in the year-old murder of a young woman
whose body was found burned in a grape vineyard.
Anke Furber was only 21 years old when a family picking grapes
discovered her charred body in the vineyard off of Reps Miller Road in
Norcross. She was so badly burned, police had to do a fingerprint
comparison to identify her. Even that took four days.
A year later, her mother is still desperate for answers.
"The last year after my daughter was murdered was horrible,"
said Ria Coesel. "I've been in counseling. I'm still in
counseling."
Cousel says her daughter dabbled in poetry and art. But the grieving mom
acknowledges her daughter had another side. Anke Furber also dabbled in
drugs, and her mother fears that's what led to her murder.
Police, however, aren't sure.
"We've got a pretty good handle on the type of life she led,"
said Corporal Darren Moloney of the Gwinnett County Police Department.
"Unfortunately, that information hasn't led to any arrests."
Ria Coesel says her daughter was trying to turn her life around. She was
in rehab to deal with her drug use. Just two weeks before her death, her
family snapped pictures of her at the Atlanta Zoo. Anke was smiling, and
seemed content.
But there is also the poem that a friend found in Anke's room after the
21-year-old's murder. The poem talked of her parents grieving over her
death; it's something that still haunts her mother.
Ria Coesel says her daughter's sometimes wayward life, it shouldn't have
ended the way it did.
"Never mind what somebody does, nobody deserves this kind of
death," says Coesel. "Nobody does."
Anyone with information about the case is encouraged to call Gwinnett
County Police at 770-513-5390.
By ANDRIA SIMMONS
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Thursday, February 05, 2009
Ria Coesel tried for years to help her
youngest child overcome drug addiction with everything from
counseling to boot camp to rehabilitation. In a way Coesel
is still trying to rescue her daughter, from obscurity.
Her daughter Anke Furber, was found dead
Sept. 25, 2005, in a vineyard in Norcross, about 30 miles
from her Marietta home. Someone shot her, then set her body
on fire.
Gwinnett police believe the slaying may
have been drug related, but a suspect has never been identified.
Coesel is fighting for justice even as she battles to raise
public awareness about drug-related deaths.
“I’m jealous sometimes of these people
whose children died a normal death like a car accident.
Isn’t that whacked?” Coesel said. “There is such a stigma
with drug-related deaths.”
Coesel spends several hours a day sitting
at the computer in Furber’s old bedroom, surrounded by her
stuffed animals and drawings. She monitors a Myspace page
she set up to bring in tips about the slaying. Coesel has
also reached out to others — facilitating a support group
for grieving parents at The Compassionate Friends chapter
in Marietta and becoming involved with a Web site called
Friends
Don’t Let Friends Die. The Web site memorializes children
who died because their supposed “friends” failed to get
them help.
D.D. Flynn, another mother whose child
is featured on the Web site, says she befriended Coesel
several years ago “for all the wrong reasons.” She, too,
lost a daughter to drugs.
Flynn’s daughter, Christi Nowak, 20,
suffered seizures from an overdose of cocaine, a date-rape
drug called GHB and chloroform at her family’s home in Woodstock
on Oct. 1, 2005. There were ropes around Nowak’s feet, poles
on her legs and her face was covered with a deflated air
mattress. Evidence at the scene also indicated that someone
left her in distress rather than getting help.
Woodstock Police have not been able to
determine who was with Nowak when she overdosed, but that
person could be charged with felony murder for providing
drugs that resulted in someone’s death.
A total of 28,723 people died of drug-induced
causes in the United States in 2003, according to the National
Center for Health Statistics.
About 3.9 percent, or 583, of the 14,831
homicides in 2007 in which circumstances were known were
drug-related, according to the FBI’s Uniform Crime Reporting
Program.
Both Coesel’s and Flynn’s daughters were
first exposed to drugs in sixth grade. Steve Pasierb, president
of the Partnership for a Drug-Free America, said most children
have their first opportunity to try drugs in middle school.
“We have to accept the fact that while
prevention is important, kids do try drugs,” Pasierb said.
“As a parent, look at it as a health threat to your kid,
not a moral failing, not a legal issue. Protect your kids’
health by being engaged on this issue.”
Partnership for a Drug Free America offers
resources on how to respond when you suspect your child
is using drugs on its Web site,
www.drugfree.org.
Parents need to open a dialogue with children about drugs,
Pasierb said.
Coesel hopes that sharing her daughter’s
tragic story may prompt others headed down the wrong path
to make a turnaround.
“Even if we save one life, it is better
than nothing,” Coesel said.
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We Are the Broken
We are the broken
Our lives have changed
Our children taken,
We're filled with pain.
We look to you
To show you care.
At first you support us
Then you're not there.
We see you out
You see us too
You avoid us
That hurts too.
What did we do
For you to leave?
Our children died
Now we grieve.
We put on masks
When you are near
We scream inside
But you don't hear.
You tell us, "Move on.
Get on with your life."
We simply nod
Your words piercing like a knife.
We long to say our child's name
The one you want unspoken
So you don't call because you're
afraid
Of we, who are the broken.
By: Kim Lasater
Mother of Kaylin Mathews
Copyright 2009
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