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Danielle cherished family, friends and life. She had her whole life planned out; her husband, number of kids, two dogs and would be a dermatologist, a career where she could help others but have time for her family.
Christi had just enrolled in college. She just began taking First Baptist Church shuttles downtown every Thursday to befriend the homeless. Just chit chatting with them and letting them know they had a friend. In her journals, she was determined to turn her life around and she started by helping others. She volunteered often for the M.U.S.T. Ministries to help set up their clothing shop for the homeless and the children's center. She helped cooked their meals. She helped do their laundry. She wanted to go into a field helping others. She would have changed at least one person's life, for the better, when they thought there was no more hope. She didn't show up last Thursday. She died.
In the months before she was killed, 21-year-old Anke Furber had been acting scared and she seemed to know she was in danger. Several days after Furber's charred remains were discovered in a small vineyard in Norcross, Anke's mom, Ria, found a note in Anke's desk at home in Marietta. In it, Anke seemed to foreshadow her own death. She wrote, "My parents would surely grieve the loss of their wonderful daughter whose craziness would soon lead to her slaughter". Ria isnt sure exactly when the note was written, but believes it was written in a close time frame to the actual murder.
At 22 years old, Levi had goals and ambitions of being a business owner, a husband and a father. He loved his family and friends with everything in him and would do anything for you. His shyness and manners we're a shining attribute to who he was. Unfortunately, Levi befriended someone who for nearly three years took advantage of his kindness and when asked to leave his home, he killed him. If he would have just walked out the door as asked, Levi would still be here today. We'll never know all the wonderful things that Levi would have accomplished, but we know he was a "Friend" till the end.
Ephraim was 21 yrs old when he prematurely transitioned to the other side. He was a very warm hearted young man. And was always available to help friends and family. As his cousin Ben said about him: "You can lay a 1,000. on the table and know completely that Ephraim would have never taken it". He spent most of his days at Antique World in Clarence , NY which was owned and operated by his Uncle. That was my sons world. A world he will no longer be able to participate in. He is sorely missed by his family and friends.
Mark suffered a brain injury at the age of 19 the night of a high school prom. Mark died at the age of 25. Life was hard for Mark, he lived an aphasic life. Mark struggled to relearn his alphabet and to speak again. Neuro rehab, drug rehab, jails, institutions and death. Mark was disabled and a fighter all at the same time. College, heavy equipment operator, volunteering were all part of these six years. Mark loved kids and wished he had one. Due to the selfish reasoning of his so called friends, Mark will never be able to achieve his dreams that he fought so hard for. Mark's struggle is over !! PEACE..........
His friends describe him as a kind, warm hearted, full of energy, always smiling, and a very silly young man. They also said that whenever Sean walked into a room that he had the ability lighting up the room because he was full of life and energy! He loved his dad, his mom, and his sister very much. He had a very special bond with his great grandma Efford and his great aunt Charlene whom also up in heaven with him. A warm hug from Sean was just another way that he showed his affection to his family and friends
When Cayte was in the middle school she was on the track team, she was a cheerleader for the Nor-Roc Vikings, she was on a soccer team, and she loved attending the dances at the Sad Cafe. When she went to high school, all of those activities stopped. The sad reason was because she was too old. All the kids have, once they reach high school, are the woods and the homes of friends when the parents are at work. If she had activities to do after school when she went to high school, maybe this wouldn't have happened.
From her birth to her passing Katty touched so many lives. Not only did her family have the joy of watching her grow from a 6 pound baby girl to a beautiful young woman, but so many others did as well. The lives she touched are too many to fathom. Her beauty and grace preceded her where ever she went. Her heart was made of fine gold and she cared for others always before herself. She was not just special to all of us but to the Lord who saw fit to call her home at such a young age. Her mansion was ready! When we think of Katty now we all can be at peace because we know she is with her Lord, never to face this harsh world we live in day to day. She is with us always when we remember her smile, her touch, and her kind words. We all had the pleasure of being touched by an ANGEL!
We want our son's name to be Remembered and to bring hope and joy out of something that has been the darkest and heartbreaking days of our families life. JP was very out spoken and we have decided to be that way on this site and to be his voice about the drug companies and the public official's that sit back and do nothing. If we could save one person from what our family had to go Through and is still going Through, it would be all worth it We will not stop until the truth gets out. We want his memory to live on.
Time has gone by so quickly and it seems like we haven't seen your face in forever. Our hearts are broken, our tears flow so freely and our souls feel empty. Michael, you left us with so many happy memories but the memories can never take your place. We know you and your uncle Sam are saving a place for those who cherished you the most.
Two weeks before he died, Chuck called me on the phone. He was excited to tell me he was joining the National Guard. He had begun to think about being a History Teacher. He planned to attend school after basic training. He also mentioned a new girlfriend. He was pretty crazy about her but wanted to give things a little more time before making her "meet the parents". Still, we made plans to meet for lunch once July wound down. He thought we might all get together and told me not to worry, he had a job and would help pay the check. The first time I met the young lady he was so crazy about was as she cried herself senseless over his casket. She laid a broken heart chain and necklace across his hands. She wore the mating half around her slender neck. Her courage in court helped to solidify the deal that sent a drug dealer to prison. I hope she, and Chuck's other friends, make the right decision and swear off drug use so we may never see their faces on these pages.
Everyone ever touched by Miranda. This will be a tribute to the life she lived. She was the most remarkable and inspirational woman I have ever known. I was in awe of my own daughter. Even as her mother, her beauty took my breath away, and as she walked this earth from her crawling stages to adulthood her beauty from the inside amazed me. Miranda loved about every living thing and each friend she had she made her relationship with them special and unique.
Jamie was a very loving son, brother, grandson, nephew, boyfriend and friend.. Most importantly he was the best father anyone could have asked for.. Even though he was only 16 when he was taken away from us from his so called friend, he did everything for his daughter and mother of his daughter  that he had asked to marry him when he turns 18.. Jamie was the type of kid that would take his shirt off his back for anyone that needs it..  Jamie died on April 23, 2008.. If only his so called friend (29 yrs old), his mother and the other people at the home called 911 instead of waiting 3 hours, he would still be here with us today.. Jamie's dad passed away Nov 2005 and he had a hard time dealing with loosing his father and could not believe he was gone.. Well now Jamie is at home with his dad..Until we meet again... I am proud of you my son..Love you always and forever, Mommy
Kaylin Marie Mathews was born on a Tuesday March 1, 1988. Kaylin was my oldest child and my only daughter. She could play the piano, guitar, and drums and loved to sing. She had been "spinning records" the last few years and loved to mix music. She had been working as a d.j. at the time of her death and was very good. Kaylin was an only child for 71/2 years. She has one brother and one sister. She was a talented writer. She made jewelry and she could draw. There was nothing that my baby couldn't do, if she wanted to. Kaylin was left to die in a ravine on June 30, 2008. She was found on July 1, 2008. Her date of death is listed as a Tuesday July 1, 2008. She was 20 years old. I miss her every second of every day. The world lost an amazing talent and an amazing young woman. I lost a part of my heart.
R.J. was truly a blessing in our lives. He was the kind of son that most parents only dream of having. He always respected and obeyed his parents and never got in trouble. RJ was never in trouble in his life RJ always called home to let us know where he was and when he would be home. When he was missing and we couldn't reach him on his cell phone, we knew immediately something terrible was wrong. This is a nightmare that no parent should have to go through and we are living it. Our concern is not what we are going through, but what our son had to go through in his final moments of life.
William Michael Grandchamp better known as Billy, was born Nov 7,1979. HE was a only child. Billy had many friends. Billy often told his friends that his MOM was his best friend. Billy liked to collect sports attire like jerseys and sports caps.Everything he wore had to match. He was meticulous with his clothing, car, and home. Although, Billy had no children of his own he loved children. He told me his greatest wish was to find a good girl and settle down and have a family. That seemed to be very important to him. Even at a young age he had a gift with children. Billy's friends have always commented on how good he was with their children and how their children loved him. Billy was loved by so many people. He had over 800 friends and family members at his wake. Billy will be greatly missed by all his family and friends.
Chase lived life spontaneously with the freedom of a butterfly – a free spirit & soul – no one could hold him down, except his baby girl. She was his LIFE. There wasn’t anything he wouldn’t do for her, including getting clean. Chase was clean 1.5 yrs, after 6 months in residential rehab in New Orleans, continued with NA meetings, substance abuse group counseling, and sought out a Navy recruiter who told him all he would have to do to be eligible. He seemed to be on his way, until he fell off the wagon 12 days out of jail. Turning to heroin again to deal with stress was the mistake of his life. “Chase’s Story” is shared with you on his main page. Thanks for taking time to read it. Sincere and heartfelt thanks to the FDLFD Family for taking us under their wings. “They will sing me to them, and I will hear.” ~RIP Chase~4evrYng~1985-2009
Katelynn Lillian Porter, 16, of West Elgin, was killed in a car crash on Dunborough Rd. in Elgin County. “In loving memory of Katelynn Porter. 12/12/09. 9:40 p.m.” is written between two hearts on the roadside memorial, a makeshift cross. Porter was a student at West Elgin secondary school, where officials are trying to come to grips with the news of her death, especially so close to Christmas.
Tony passed away 10 days after his 16th birthday. He asked permission to spend the night at his friends and I told him yes. I told him" I love you" and he replied "I love you too Mom. Tony was the kid who wanted to make everyone laugh. He had such a wonderful sense of humor and a big heart. He would talk to his friends for hours trying to help them solve their problems. He was a loving big brother, and a wonderful son. He would help you with anything without even being asked. Tony was an extremely intelligent child. He was always placed in advanced classes. A week before he passed we received a letter from Columbine informing us that Tony was nominated to participate in their advanced English Program. He had a gift for writing stories.
She loved all things technical and mechanical with her older brother Ian and fashion and decorating days with her older sister Genevieve. She loved Gothic country art, the workings of the human body, video games, driving and her new tattoo machine. She loved swimming and surfing. She loved all things living and loved her dog Timpleton and her parrot Thermopolis. She had a strong heart and soul, was an independent and progressive thinker, open minded and a will power like no one else. Her favorite place to go was Barnes and Noble.
Vivianna Satterfield was 15 years old! Vivi was the type of young lady that put other people in front of herself. She would always say "Peace and Love".
Kelli Laine Lewis is my only daughter. Kelli died when she was 18 after attending a party hosted by 3 adults who offered a $5.00 entry fee to come and drink all you wanted. A pretty tempting offer for teens not old enough to buy alcohol.
Growing up – she had it all. She was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She wShe was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She was always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing. Taylor was a huge fan of Tyler Perry’s Madea. She owned every play and knew every word to every gospel song in the plays. She would sing them at the top of her lungs to anyone that would listen. as always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing.
He went out THE FIRST TIME to celebrate being "LEGAL" with a creep he considered a friend (even though we warned him this guy was not a true friend). My son did not drive so he was picked up about ten thirty. Even when it was obvious my son was having difficulties this creep brought him to his own house , which is 4 houses away for a few hours, and dropped him off here at home in the middle of the night WITHOUT KNOCKING OR CALLING OR WAKING US UP. We found Ben in his bed the next morning when we tried to wake him.

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Donn Esmonde: Parents are on a crusade for the truth

By Donn Esmonde

News Columnist

Updated: September 27, 2009, 4:05 PM /

They are on a crusade. They are on a crusade to prove that their daughter was murdered, and to find out who did it. They have questions that deserve answers.

The troubled daughter whom they say was straightening out ended up dead, naked and stuffed in a garbage tote. They believe, with good reason, that she was murdered. But believing it is different than proving it. This is the nightmarish purgatory in which Leslie Brill and Ken Fink live.

Brill is the mother, Fink is the stepfather, of Amanda Wienckowski. Amanda was the 20-year-old woman found discarded last January on Buffalo s Clinton Street. She had been missing for five weeks, since being dropped off at a house across from where her body was found. The medical examiner said Amanda whose hair had been shorn, whose body was bruised and contained traces of the date-rape drug GHB died of an accidental overdose.

Her mother and stepfather do not believe it. I talked to them last week at a restaurant near their Tonawanda home.

She did not jump headfirst into that garbage tote on her own, said Ken Fink, a contractor with a steady gaze. Nothing adds up. Nobody has been held accountable.

Amanda had long blond hair and sky-blue eyes, but she was not the typical girl-next-door. She was a heroin addict who worked as a prostitute to pay for her habit. She lived with a 42-year-old man who admits he dropped her off that night on Clinton Street. She likely never left the house alive.

One grim but plausible scenario is Amanda went there to turn a trick, stayed to party and overdosed. She was eventually dumped in the garbage tote by dirtbags who did not want to call the cops and deal with the blowback. If it happened that way, it would be wrong, sick and cowardly. But it would not be murder.

Leslie Brill and Ken Fink do not believe it. Maybe it is just the wishful thinking of two loving, grieving parents. But I do not think so.

Their lawyer last week sued for Buffalo s police files. The department will not release the files because the case remains open. It is the latest step by Amanda s parents in a crusade for the truth. Their next move may be exhuming her body for an independent autopsy. They may need to move the ball on their own. With an overload of unsolved homicides, Buffalo police may not be inclined to go full-bore on a suspicious, but officially accidental, death.

There are reasons her parents believe she was murdered. They say Amanda who spoke with her mother every day had gotten clean, was headed to college and was taking an anti-addiction drug. They say she was lured to the house by e-mails from a man posing as a photographer looking for models. They think that she was held against her will, drugged and killed. A forensic expert told them her bruises are signs of a struggle that prompted heart failure.

Antoine Garner is the man whom Amanda went to see. Police describe him as a person of interest in the case. Garner is now in jail, charged with raping a woman seven weeks before Amanda disappeared. He has denied involvement in her death.

Just because things [look] a certain way doesn t necessary mean you have enough to make an arrest, said Dennis Richards, Buffalo s chief of detectives. We still are very interested in knowing who was with [Amanda] in the last moments of her life and who deposited her in the garbage tote.

Richards told me that it is no sham investigation, that detectives Noreen Walsh and Mary Evans are on the case. District Attorney Frank Sedita said he cannot prosecute if there is no arrest and no proof of homicide.

Which leaves Amanda s parents in limbo. And on a crusade.

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Amanda L. Wienckowski was found dead Jan. 9, her body stuffed in a garbage tote.

 

Updated: 02/18/09 07:29 AM

With no signs of violence, death has been ruled accidental

Woman in tote died of drug overdose

By Lou Michel

NEWS STAFF REPORTER

 

 

 

Amanda L. Wienckowski, the young Lewiston woman found frozen, naked and stuffed inside an East Side trash tote last month, died from a drug overdose.

Erie County District Attorney Frank Sedita III said an autopsy also determined there were no signs of violence and that the manner of her death has been ruled accidental.

But that determination is not sitting well with Wienckowskis mother.

I dont believe that at all, said Leslie Brill Fink, Amandas mother. I feel theres more to this and somebody needs to do their job and figure this out.

Obviously, my daughter did not take off all her clothes and throw herself into the garbage can.

An investigation is continuing to determine who placed her body in the tote, which was discovered Jan. 9 in the alcove of a church across from the Spring Street house she was driven to by her roommate, Sedita said Tuesday.

If the investigation reveals credible evidence of who disposed of her body in such a disgraceful fashion, we will prosecute, he said.

The determination that it was a fatal overdose caused by acute opiate intoxication was confirmed by all four medical doctors at the Erie County medical examiners office after reviewing toxicology tests, Sedita said.

Theres no evidence of hypothermia, which means you have to be alive when youre exposed to the cold, Sedita said. Nor are there any identifiable lethal injuries. In other words, no trauma indicative of foul play.

Fink said too many questions remain unanswered.

Nothing makes sense, she said. Nothing anybody is telling us makes sense.

Did somebody give something to her that knocked her out then, took advantage of her, and, then, threw her out? she said. These are my questions.

Fink said semen was found on her daughters body. She wants to know whose it was.

Her face was bloodied when her body was found. How did that happen?

She is also not satisfied with the accounts given by the man who drove her daughter to the address who claims not to know anything and the man she met there who says he never saw [Amanda] before.

Im very, very upset, if, for whatever reason, this is what theyre concluding. he district attorney said, if the investigation produces evidence that an individual injected her with the intention of causing her death, then you could prosecute for a homicide offense.

He cited a case his office is prosecuting against Julius C. Franquet, 41, of the Town of Tonawanda, who is charged with second-degree murder in the death of his girlfriend, Annmarie Paciorek, 38, for allegedly injecting her with a fatal amount of a prescription painkiller last December.

At this point, Sedita said it remains unknown if Wienckowski injected herself or if it was someone else.

The 20-year-old woman was reported missing once her family found out she had been taken to the house at 157 Spring St. on Dec. 5 by Adam Patterson, her 42-year-old roommate. Patterson told authorities he had received text messages and a cell phone call from her saying she would be delayed inside the residence.

Antoine Garner, the man Wienckowski went to visit for what police believe was a sexual encounter, was charged later on Jan. 9 by Buffalo police in an unrelated Oct. 18 rape. He allegedly choked a woman into unconsciousness by tightening a piece of cloth around her neck during the attack.

Garners family has insisted that authorities wrongly labeled him a person of interest in the Wienckowski case.

Meanwhile, a close friend of Wienckowskis family has organized a fundraiser to help cover the cost of her funeral. The event is set from 6 p. m. to midnight March 21 in the Dom Polski Club, 576 Oliver St., North Tonawanda.

The gathering will include a silent auction, a 50-50 drawing, music, dancing and food. Admission tickets are $20 apiece. For information, call Joanna M. Hemmerling at 444-1186.

Some of the funds will be used to create a memorial in Wienckowskis honor.

lmichel@buffnews.com

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Amanda Wienckowski death called senseless.

Updated: 01/25/09 07:55 AM

Slain womans mom joins East Side anti-violence effort

By Lou Michel NEWS STAFF REPORTER

 

Amanda L. Wienckowski was stripped and her long blond hair was hacked off before her body was stuffed upside down into a garbage tote near an East Side church, family members say.

These new details emerged as the mother of the 20-yearold Lewiston woman continued to push for more action by authorities to find the individual responsible for her daughters death.

She was found nude and upside down in a garbage can, and her hair had been chopped off, probably as a trophy, said Leslie Brill Fink. That says to me some sick person murdered my daughter. Her death was senseless and cruel.

Authorities say that Wienckowskis body showed no outward sign of violence, but autopsy and toxicology results are not expected until early this week, according to Kevin Montgomery, spokesman for the Erie County Health Department. Wienckowski was also using heroin, family members have acknowledged.

[The results] could come in Monday or Tuesday, it depends, Montgomery said.

Wienckowskis frozen body was found Jan. 9 in a garbage tote outside a church directly across from a Spring Street residence where she had gone the evening of Dec. 5 for what police believe was a paid sexual encounter. That was the last time family and friends heard from her.

Antoine Garner, 22, who lives at the Spring Street house, was charged several hours after Wienckowskis body was found, but those charges are related to an Oct. 18 rape in which he allegedly choked a woman. However, he has also been identified as a person of interest in the Wienckowski case.

Garner has said that Wienckowski was at the house, but later left, according to his mother, Sonya Garner.

I want an arrest made. I want society to change, said Brill Fink, a Town of Tonawanda resident who now finds herself working with East Side advocates for justice and nonviolence.

At Wienckowskis funeral last weekend, members of her family circulated petitions for Charles Burgin, a city resident who is spearheading an effort known as Brothermans Progress, which is seeking a community summit meeting to come up with ways to alleviate violence among young people. More than 200 mourners signed petitions.

Burgins goal is to collect 50,000 signatures from residents throughout Buffalo and its suburbs to present to federal, state and local elected officials in order to give them incentive to attend the summit and develop job-training programs and better ways to educate children, given the Buffalo School Districts graduation rate of just 46 percent.

Burgin, who has attended more than 100 prayer vigils and funerals of individuals who have died as a result of violence, met last week for three hours with Brill Fink to share his vision of a community that works together and saves young people from horrible deaths.

She is supportive of what Im doing out in the community to try and change things, Burgin said. I think it is a shame what happened to her daughter. It doesnt matter if you are white, black, Puerto Rican or Asian.

Because of his intimate knowledge of street violence, which includes his brothers fatal shooting by an assailant with an AK- 47 in 1993, Burgin says it is possible that Wienckowski was being held captive during the five-week period she was missing.

It is a possibility that [Brill Finks] daughter may have been passed around from place to place. People have been known to do that, Burgin said.

Also working with Burgin is community activist Darnell Jackson, who knows the effects of violence better than most. His brother, Robert Jackson, was fatally shot by three gunmen in 1998. Now, his 32-year-old nephew, Clarence E. Jackson, has been missing for a week, and the family suspects foul play.

I feel their pain, Darnell Jackson said of Wienckowskis family. Violence has no boundaries if youre caught up in the wrong way of living. Without proper assistance, you can become a tragedy and a victim. Thats why it is so important that we all come together, Jackson said.

He made an appeal that anyone with information on his nephew call police at 847-2255 or him at 570-9160.

Wienckowski had worked as a prostitute and was addicted to heroin, according to authorities and her acquaintances. But they also emphasized that she had planned to enter drug rehabilitation in hopes of starting a new life.

Whatever her daughters mistakes were in life, Brill Fink says that she wants her death to serve as a catalyst for change.

I would like people to join together against violence, drugs and street activities, Brill Fink said in urging people to sign Burgins petitions. I want parents to step up. There has to be a reason why Amanda was on this earth.

To obtain copies of the petition, Burgin can be reached at 207-4186 or at his organizations e-mail address: bromaninc@gmail.com . It could have been anyones daughter, Burgin said. Its time for the community to man-up and stand up.

lmichel@buffnews.com

 



New York teen overdose spotlights growing heroin problem


Provided by: The Canadian Press
Written by: Frank Eltman, THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
Aug. 3, 2008

In this photo provided by the Ciappa family, Natalie Ciappa is seen in her senior year of high school, less than a month before she died from a suspected heroin overdose. THE CANADIAN PRESS/AP, Ciappa Family

MASSAPEQUA, N.Y. - When high-school senior Natalie Ciappa nearly died of a heroin overdose on Memorial Day weekend, she promised her parents she had learned her lesson and was going clean.


She got a job, met a guy and appeared to be getting better. She was even making her curfews again.


But on the first night of summer, Natalie went to a party and never came home.


Her parents called emergency rooms and the police, but they knew nothing about her daughter. They eventually learned where the party had been and headed there.


A woman answering the door led Doreen Ciappa to a side garage door. Natalie was motionless on a couch while MTV blared from a television. Red plastic cups were strewn across a catering table. Natalie's lips and nose were blue: She was already dead.


"I knew it. I looked at her and I knew it," she said. "I yelled, 'Oh my God, someone call 911."'


The death of Natalie Ciappa, a Plainedge High School honours student with a singing voice her mother says was too good for "American Idol," has confirmed what police, prosecutors and federal narcotics agents say has been a growing problem on Long Island: Cheap, potent heroin available for sale in school hallways, malls, parks and just about anywhere young people congregate.


It is not a problem isolated to Long Island. While the federal Drug Enforcement Agency says heroin use has remained fairly consistent across the country in recent years, the highly addictive narcotic goes through vicious phases when it becomes the trendy drug of choice among teenagers. For example, suburban Dallas is among the areas combatting heroin use by kids as young as eight for several years, officials said.


Fernando Cortez Sr. says his 15-year-old son and namesake died the first time he tried so-called "cheese," a concoction of cheap black tar heroin mixed with over-the-counter medications that has killed dozens in the Dallas area. The potent mixture has been blamed in a wave of heroin deaths in recent years in other cities as well, from Chicago to Detroit to Philadelphia.
Cortez said Fernando Jr. was with his sister's boyfriend in March 2007 when he was lured into trying the drug. "They did some, then they went and got more. This guy gave him way too much. He went to sleep and never woke up."


Dave Cannata's 16-year-old son, Nick, died in June 2005, with heroin and diphenhydramine in his system. He blames peer pressure.


"These kids are not going to get out from under peer pressure," Cannata said. "I tell people if heroin is in your neighbourhood, sell your house and get your freaking kid out of there right now. Get out of Dodge."


On Long Island, the scourge of the drug is exacerbated by the fact that dealers are preying on areas with heroin that costs virtually nothing. One heroin ring that included Natalie Ciappa's ex-boyfriend was recently charged with selling the drug at the Hempstead Bus Terminal for as little as $5 a packet.


"Cigarettes are $6 a pack!" exclaimed Patricia Silverman, whose children were all graduates of Plainedge High School. "My heart goes out to the parents. It's just a national tragedy. This is supposed to be a beautiful community."


Many teens using heroin these days snort the drug rather than inject it. "Unfortunately because it can be snorted, kids think the stigma of being a drug addict is removed," said John Gilbride, the DEA's special agent in charge of the New York office. "There's not the same stigma as when a hard-core drug user injects it."


Nassau County District Attorney Kathleen Rice says the paradigm of the heroin user has changed. "If you look at Natalie and you hear the description of her, you would never in a million years think that she was a child that would use heroin," the prosecutor said. "You ask 10 out of 10 people what a typical heroin addict looks like and they'll say it's a junkie in the street with a needle hanging out of their arm."


Because most kids are snorting, she said, "You're not going to see the telltale signs like track marks and needle marks."


Lt. Peter Donohue, a veteran narcotics detective, subscribes to a "generational amnesia" theory. "The kids have been told about the detriment of using cocaine, alcohol or marijuana, but heroin was never (discussed) really; that's something from a generation ago," he said.
He said two police officers were recently in a bagel shop at 10 in the morning.
"A kid was asleep at the table next to them and then his buddy comes out of the bathroom with a needle and blood running down his arm. He had heroin in his pocket and he got arrested."


Doreen Ciappa says she tried everything imaginable to get Natalie to stop using heroin.


For more than a year, there were battles at their suburban Long Island home: arguments over rehab, fights when she quit counselling, groundings after car accidents, threats about not going away to college.
In the beginning, Natalie admitted to smoking marijuana, but her parents were sure she was using something worse. She started losing weight and getting sick.


Doreen Ciappa started policing her MySpace page and searching her room for signs of drugs, finding the painkiller OxyContin among her belongings.
"I approached her and she told me she got it in school that day. I said, 'In school?' And she said, 'Don't you get it? At any time of the day in any hallway, if I want something all I have to do is look up and I will see somebody who can give it to me."'


Then came the first overdose. The family was actually grateful because this was supposed to be their wake-up call. But three weeks later, Doreen and her husband Victor woke up on a Saturday morning and found no sign of Natalie.


"When your daughter has had one overdose and they don't come home, we both immediately started crying," Doreen said.
Doreen said she became frustrated with federal privacy laws that restrict the amount of health information she was able to get about Natalie after she turned 18 in March. Natalie was entitled to make her own decisions about rehab after turning 18.


"That's what I don't get," she said, vowing to become an activist in changing privacy laws. "How can we be responsible for someone and not have any authority?"


At Natalie's wake, Doreen Ciappa had a strange reaction when other parents greeted her with condolences, saying they seemed relieved that it wasn't their child who was dead. Don't assume it's not your kid, she wanted to tell them.


"They look at their good, healthy, beautiful kid and they feel secure. I don't want them to feel secure. And that's what got to me at the wake - I saw these mothers."


Charlie Bowman sympathizes with the plight the Ciappas faced with their daughter.


"Even with a 15-year-old, what do you do?" the grandfather asked outside the Plainedge Public Library. "Tie them down and take them to a doctor or to a rehab? I'm not sure what the answer is and I'm not sure the officials know what the answer is either; otherwise they would be doing more about it. It's just alarming."


This is not the first time that drugs and death intersected in Plainedge.
An archway entering Plainedge High School's athletic field pays tribute to Edward Byrne, a 1984 alumnus.


Byrne was a 22-year-old NYPD rookie on Feb. 26, 1988, guarding the twice-firebombed home of a drug case witness in his patrol car when he was shot to death on orders from a violent Queens drug lord. The case attracted national headlines amid the city's murderous, crack-driven crime wave; Byrne's father gave his son's NYPD shield to then-Vice President George H.W. Bush, who was running for the White House.


A faded photograph of the rookie cop in uniform appears on one of two plaques.


A generation later, another Plainedge High School student is dead. Natalie Ciappa sang the national anthem before football games there, but it's difficult to know if she ever read the inscription on a second plaque honouring Officer Byrne:
"His death is leading the way to a true all-out war in the problem of drugs and cowardly acts of violence.


"Let us hope that out of his ultimate sacrifice will come positive developments in defeating the drug problem."




DA, Police Department Smash Heroin Distribution Ring


Tapped phones, surveillance leads to 10 arrests, including the ex-boyfriend of a Massapequa girl who was the victim of a heroin-related death last month

MINEOLA, NY Nassau County District Attorney Kathleen Rice and Nassau County Police Commissioner Lawrence Mulvey announced Wednesday morning the results of a sweeping investigation into heroin distribution in Nassau County. The investigation led authorities across county lines and into Queens, where seven weeks of wiretaps and surveillance uncovered a large scale operation that Rice says has resulted in 10 arrests, including the ex-boyfriend of 18-year-old Natalie Ciappa, who was found to be the victim of a heroin-related death at a Seaford house party last month.


Rice and Mulvey were joined at Wednesdays press conference by the Ciappa family, Nassau County Executive Tom Suozzi and members of both the NCPD and NCDAs narcotics divisions.


In addition to the arrest of Ciappas ex-boyfriend, the investigation led authorities to the ringleaders of the network, brothers Alexander and Edward Fontanet of Queens.


Rice said that the investigation began in February 2008, with Nassau County Police Department detectives uncovering widespread heroin dealing at the Hempstead Bus Terminal. Intelligence uncovered during the initial investigation led detectives to a Roosevelt home which is believed to be a Nassau County distribution point being used by the Queens ring. A search warrant executed at the Roosevelt house resulted in the seizure of 804 glassine envelopes of heroin. Each glassine envelope of heroin is considered a dose of the deadly drug. As a result of the search warrant, detectives obtained significant intelligence regarding the networks suspected primary source, the Fontanet brothers, and their Nassau County counterparts, Donald Kurth of Merrick, and Patrick Graf of Massapequa.


In May, District Attorney Kathleen Rice applied to the Court for an eavesdropping warrant on two cellular phones used by the Fontanet brothers. Nassau County Judge Frank A. Gulotta signed the warrant and eventually allowed the District Attorney to expand the scope of the warrant to include cellular phones used by Kurth and Graf.


As a result of the DAs wiretaps and the police departments surveillance of the network, significant additional evidence was obtained against Alexander Fontanets wife, Lorraine Cianciulli, his Queens colleague Jose Demenech, the girlfriend of Kurth, Heather Wahl, and the wife of Graf, Melissa Graf. Evidence was also obtained against Damon Marinacci of Syosset, and Phillip Ordaya of Seaford.


On June 17, 2008, the Fontanet brothers, Lorraine Cianciulli, Jose Demenech, Donald Kurth, Heather Whal, Patrick and Melissa Graff and Damon Marinacci were arrested.


Phillip Ordaya is the ex-boyfriend of Natalie Ciappa, an 18-year-old Massapequa girl found to be the victim of a heroin-related death June 21 at a Seaford house party.


Rice said that after the Ciappa tragedy, detectives investigating the incident obtained information regarding an old boyfriend of Natalies, Phillip Ordaya. Detectives quickly determined that Ordaya was a previously unidentified subject involved in the wiretapped telephone conversations of the investigation into the Queens-Nassau ring. As a result of the connection, Ordaya was placed under surveillance and eventually arrested on a drug conspiracy charge July 7.


Rice said that authorities now know definitively that heroin played a role in the death of Ciappa, though the final toxicology results are not expected to be complete for another few weeks. The investigation into any possible direct linkage between Ciappas overdose and Ordayas alleged heroin dealing is ongoing.


Two additional heroin possession arrests were made pursuant to this investigation and Rice said that more are expected. Rice also said that she expects to upgrade the charges against several of the defendants involved based on the continuing investigation.


Search warrants executed at the Fontanet homes following their arrests resulted in the seizure of more than 1,000 glassine envelopes of heroin and extensive paraphernalia and equipment used to package and sell heroin.
A warrant executed at Grafs Massapequa home and car resulted in the seizure of nearly 500 packages of heroin.


A search of Marinacci pursuant to his arrest resulted in the seizure of 15 individually packaged doses of heroin.


A search of Kurths Massapequa home resulted in the seizure of 106 glassine envelopes of heroin.


A search of Ordaya pursuant to his arrest resulted in the seizure of glassine envelopes distinctively marked with terms and known brands discussed frequently by the distribution network during their recorded communications.
Rice said that heroin arrests have steadily increased since 2000, culminating with the arrest of 151 people for sale or possession of the drug in 2007. Since 2007, there have been 37 suspected heroin overdoses in Nassau County.
Rice and Mulvey praised the work of Nassau County Police Department detectives from the newly created Heroin Investigation Team (HIT) within the Narcotics & Vice Squad of the police department. Rice also commended the work of Assistant District Attorney Irene Angelakis and Assistant District Attorney and Deputy Bureau Chief of Narcotics Kristen Fexas, along with Investigators James Whiston and Warren Hacke.
Rice and Mulvey also thanked the Long Island office of the United States Drug Enforcement Agency for their assistance in this investigation.
The charges against the defendants are merely accusations and the defendants are presumed innocent until and unless proven guilty.


 


Parents find daughter, 18, dead in friend's home



A Massapequa couple's search for their teenage daughter after she failed to come home from a party ended in tragedy when they found her unconscious in the recreation room of a friend's Seaford home, they said.

She was later pronounced dead at a local hospital

Police released few details about the death, which they are investigating as a homicide. They did confirm that Natalie Ciappa, 18, a Plainedge High School senior who was bound for SUNY Old Westbury in the fall, was found unresponsive shortly after 11 a.m. Saturday at a house on South Street in Seaford.

She was pronounced dead at 11:39 a.m. at New Island Hospital in Bethpage, police said. The Friday night party came near the end of Natalie Ciappa's final year at Plainedge, where she had been a cheerleader and often sang the national anthem at school basketball games, her parents said.

The Ciappas began searching for her in the morning when they discovered she had not come home from a get-together with friends, said Natalie's mother, Doreen Ciappa.

A few hours later, they found their daughter lying facedown on a couch in her friend's rec room, she said.

"It was a horrible nightmare, a parent's worst nightmare," Doreen Ciappa said. "We tried to resuscitate her, but we couldn't."

The body was taken to the Nassau County medical examiner's office for an autopsy, police said.

Yesterday, her parents recalled her as a bright, sensitive young woman who was planning to study criminal psychology.

They said she doted on her younger brothers, Nicholas, 13, and Logan, 11, and had an older brother, Jesse, 20. She cared for two pets: a rescued cat, Salem, which she adopted in the sixth grade, and her dog Buster, a Cavalier King Charles spaniel.

A gifted singer, she was invited to join Nassau's All-County Women's Chorus four years in a row, her parents said.

She loved cheerleading, which she started in kindergarten and continued until the 11th grade.

The Ciappas said they don't know how their daughter died. On Saturday morning, they called her friends to find out where she had been. When they obtained the address, they drove to the house.

Doreen Ciappa said a woman answered the door, and took them to the rec room, which had been converted from a garage attached to the house.

There they found their daughter, who was clothed and lying facedown on the couch.

"I don't know what to think, to tell you the truth," said Doreen Ciappa, 50. "I'm not going to jump to any conclusions.

Natalie Ciappa died on her father's birthday, her parents said. The family had been planning to celebrate the birthday with a trip to a horror movie convention in New Jersey.

"We're all big horror movie fans," said Victor Ciappa, who turned 49 on Saturday.

"I used to like to sing her to sleep when she was young. I used to like to read to her. I'm overwhelmed right now."
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LI TEEN DEATH A HEROIN OD


By KIERAN CROWLEY
Last updated: 8:05 am
July 10, 2008
Posted: 3:23 am
July 10, 2008


A teen found dead after a booze-soaked Long Island party overdosed on heroin, police and prosecutors said yesterday.
Nassau County cops also announced the arrest of her ex-boyfriend and 11 other people in a suspected heroin ring.
College-bound Natalie Ciappa, 18, died at a June 21 house party in Seaford, said police, who were investigating whether there was a direct link between her death and ex-boyfriend Phillip Ordaya, one of a dozen dealers arrested after a seven-week investigation.
Ciappa's mom, Doreen, said at a news conference: "We thought [Ordaya] was decent . . . We discovered later that he was a drug dealer."




Natalies Law



By Timothy BolgerPosted: 12/17/2008 - 7:56:24 PM
http://www.longislandpress.com/articles/coverstory/650/In a standard show this week at the Nassau and Suffolk Legislatures, a teenaged choir serenaded lawmakers, high school dancers flaunted their moves, and whiz kids paraded their academic awards. Any of them could have been Natalie Ciappa, the late 18-year-old Massapequa girl who was equally gifted, but instead became the new poster child for the Long Island heroin epidemic when she fatally overdosed in June. The talented singer, beautiful cheerleader and above-average honors student received awards similar to the citations that legislators handed out like Santaa far cry from your typical junkie. Yet in death, the Plainedge High School graduate, who was awarded a scholarship to SUNY Old Westbury, starred in the role of her life as two bills that aim to root out the spreading heroin scourge were named in her honor.

Spurred by a special series of reports by the Long Island Press, the Natalie Ciappa Law passed nearly unanimously in both legislatures after much debate. Nassau County Executive Tom Suozzi is expected to sign the bill into law, although a spokesman for Suffolk County Executive Steve Levy would not commit, saying he has yet to review the legislation. Under the law, IT (information technology) staff with police departments in Nassau and Suffolk counties would have until March 16Natalies birthdayto start mapping heroin possession and sales arrests on the Internet. There are talks of the counties pooling resources to create a regional website, since both bills mandate that the information be updated monthly with the date, time, location and defendants age. The ultimate goal of the website is to pinpoint heroin hot spots and inform concerned parents to make sure their kids avoid those areas, proponents say.

Without the planned website, heres what we know: Heroin-related arrests are up 30 percent in Nassau with 198 through November of this year, compared to 152 in all of 2007. Suffolk has a 28 percent increase, with 766 arrests, up from 597 for the same time periods, an increase attributable to Island-wide police efforts to investigate overdose cases. In May, Nassau police held a summit for school officials and alerted the public to the increase in heroin use among young adults, especially in the countys southeast corridor. State mental health officials report an increase in opiate overdose-related emergency room visits on LI, while national anti-drug advocates report the mean age for first-time heroin use fell from 26 to 21 years old. And as the Press investigation into high school heroin use [Long Highland, June 26] revealed days after Natalie died, new users often start in their teens nowadays.

The pain and anguish that this family is feeling could have been prevented, says Legis. David Mejias (D-Farmingdale), who proposed the bill on Nov. 18, of Doreen and Victor Ciappa, Natalies parents, who are now on a mission to pass a similar law statewide. Had [Doreen] known that there was a heroin epidemic in the Massapequas, she could have done something about it, Mejias says, blaming school districts for what has been described as ostrich-like behavior. Mejias charged the schools as being more interested in protecting their image than alerting parents on the issue.

Legis. Wayne Horsley (D-Lindenhurst), who proposed Suffolks version of the bill the same day as Mejias, says that the plan is putting a light, opening a window, on this issue that has caught so many by surprise. School denials combined with the fact that younger users snort or smoke the increasingly potent, highly addictive opiate instead of shooting up, makes it more difficult for parents to noticea pattern that has proved deadly.

If the Ciappas knew that there was a student arrested with 28 bags of heroin in Massapequa High School in October, 2007a fact that the school district was caught lying about to the Pressthey would have considered heroin a possible cause of Natalies troubles and sent her to rehab, says Victor.

With the information to be provided on the website, Natalies family hopes fewer parents will have to suffer as they have. There is no excuse for anybody saying they didnt know, says Doreen, urging parents to put the information to use. This law will mean nothing if people dont take action, so I am pleading with parents to go on this site and check it regularly. We want to make sure that other people have every opportunity to save their children.

Smack Down

Although the bill passed, it did not come without a fight and some compromise. The original draft did not include the website and instead required police to directly notify school districts when there is a heroin arrest within their district. But officials from the Nassau-Suffolk School Boards Association (NSSBA) were adamant that direct notification would leave school districts open to lawsuitsa position that received mixed reactions on either side of the county line.

Mejias maintained the direct notification portion of the bill was necessary and chastised the NSSBA, while taking the suggestion to also notify PTAs, civic groups and houses of worship. To not notify schools directly takes away completely the spirit of the bill, Mejias said following a Dec. 1 public hearing on the proposal. His final version still included the notification, but added an amendment meant to prevent schools from being sued, which led to hours of debate before the final vote on Monday, Dec. 15. If a school received information but did nothing with it because they felt that the information was too vague, but then a student died, the district could be held liable, the association argued.

Jay Breakstone, vice president of the Bellmore-based NSSBA, was not pleased with the fact that the direct notification to schools remained in the Nassau bill. What I feared two weeks ago has come to fruition: The impression seems to have been left that the school board association is in favor of heroin use on Long Island, he testified in what became a loud back-and-forth with Mejias. After assurances from an official with the Nassau County Attorneys office that any lawsuit brought against a school district under the law would lose, the legislators voted unanimously in favor of the bill, with one abstention because that legislator represents a school district in his law practice.

So what that a school has a liability to tell the parents that theres a drug dealer in the school? Mejias asked rhetorically, noting that districts notify parents when theres a sex offender in the neighborhood or lice in the schools. The bill does not mandate that the school do anything with the information, just that they be notified.

Horsley, on the other hand, dropped the notification amendment to avoid the liability issue and redrafted the bill to establish what is officially called the Suffolk Drug Mapping Index, modeled after the Parents for Megans Law website. Isolating a responsible party may end up being a short-sighted, narrowly focused approach that does little more than consign blame, and relieve other parties of enduring responsibility, he explained in a statement following the change, suggesting that schools are not solely responsible.

Then in the week prior to the final vote in Nassau, Mejias quietly came around to the website idea, amending the bill to create the Nassau Drug Mapping Index. Both lawmakers spoke of possibly merging the two into a regional website. Still, the website wasnt favored by everyone.

Suffolk Legis. Thomas Barraga (R-West Islip) said he has dealt with parents of heroin-addicted children before, and the story is always they same: Never my child. That is why he believes parents will continue to stick their heads in the sand and, in effect, only help make criminals better prepared. Dealers and pushers will use the information to their advantage, he said in explaining why he was the only lawmaker on Long Island to vote no, yet still praising the intent. The website will not remove one drug dealer from the street, he said, because the pushers will be on the move if they know where the hotspots for arrests are.

The concern had been echoed by police sources speaking anonymously, but there is a clause in the Nassau bill to prevent against heroin investigations being compromised. Detectives will not release arrest information until the investigation is complete, the same way that some drug possession arrests do not make it into police blotters immediately, so as to not tip off the dealer.

This particular law, we feel, will aid in identifying areas where heroin usage is prominent and as one of the proactive approaches this department supported in this increasing epidemic, says Detective Sgt. Anthony Repalone, a police spokesman for Nassau. He notes that other crimes such as burglaries and bank robberies have been linked to heroin and that there have been additional fatal heroin overdoses among teens that have not been made public because of medical privacy laws, although he could not provide a number.

According to Detective Lt. Peter Donohue, deputy commanding officer of the narcotics/vice squad, the department has recently established a new process to track any heroin-related incidents encountered by patrol officers. Different codes are affixed to different incidents, such as a heroin possession, sale or if an officer finds heroin on his or her patrol. When a patrol officer is involved in any heroin-related enforcement, the information must be shared with narcotics.

There has been payoff with the new system. It enables us to get a real handle on things, says Donohue. The junkie wants to get out of jail. They will sell out their connection in a heartbeat to get out to get more.

A spokesman for Suffolk Police did not return repeated calls seeking comment.


Natalies Law Beyond L.I.

A website is by no means a silver bullet to an issue this complex, but continuing to raise awareness is a good start, officials say. This bill is one piece of a puzzle, Mejias says. Horsley has mentioned amending the bill next year to include other hard drug arrests, such as cocaine, methamphetamines and prescription drug arrests.

That would prove useful as kids often are introduced to the opiate world at pharm parties, in which they raid their parents medicine cabinet for high-strength pain killers such as Vicodin, OxyContin and Percocet. It not uncommon for kids to crush up the pills to sniff them, opening the door to intranasal drug abuse, and since todays heroin is easy to get and can been found for as cheap as $5 a bag on Long Island, that next step is easier than ever before, drug counselors say.

Yet despite the undeniable prevalence, denial still runs rampant. This bill imposes no obligation on the school to add heroin awareness curriculum or to educate its administrators, teachers and staff on the dangers of heroin, testified Oscar Michelen, a lawyer, professor and anti-drug lecturer. As the founder of The Law Squad, Michelen offers drug abuse and criminal justice seminars to schools, but often finds that they dont want the tough ones about hard drugs. They ask for more of a fluff piece such as how to protect yourself at prom, he says.

But with the website, involved parents can cajole unresponsive school boards, not that school officials say theyll need it. Once we find out that we have hot spots, we have an education forum that we can move forward with, says Fred Langstaff, area director of the New York State School Boards Association. But the local pressure will have to be up to other parents, as the Ciappas have their sights set elsewhere.

Whats happened here I think is the first step in proving that theres enough people out there that that law is wrong, says Victor while planning the next Natalies Law benefit concert to help lobby for a federal law that they hope to get passed. Were financially responsible for them until they turn 21, but we cant check them into rehab when they need it, if they need it, when theyre 18, he says. He learned the reason behind Natalies unusual behavior two months after her 18th birthday, so she was able to refuse rehab. Only a judge could force her, provided she was arrested.

When a kid is in their darkest hour, a parent is probably their last line of defense, or their last help, and when you take that parents right away, its really not helpful to the kid and theyre still 18as far as Im concern theyre still kids, he says.
 
 
Generation Junk

Natalies family had no idea she was a abusing heroin because she sniffed it and didnt have the track marks from using needles to shoot up, the most obvious sign of heroin abuse. Here are the more subtle signs for parents to look for:

To cover up the physical signs of drug use, kids will try to hide themselves. Be wary of a hat being used to cover the eyes or wearing long sleeves at inappropriate times.
Persistent blank expressions and increased lethargy.
Change in temperament; lethargic or aggressive behavior.
Excessive sniffling and nose-blowing.
Avoiding conversations by giving short yes or no answers.
Falling asleep mid-sentence, in their food, or at other inappropriate times.



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Man charged with selling drug in NY overdose death


October 27, 2008
HERKIMER, N.Y.
State police are charging a 31-year-old man with criminal sale of a controlled substance for selling prescription painkillers to a woman who later died of an overdose.

James Judson is being held without bail in the Herkimer County jail. Judson was in jail in Florida on unrelated charges when he was indicted by a Herkimer County grand jury in connection with the death of 28-year-old Lea Bazinet.

An autopsy showed Bazinet died Aug. 8, 2007 from an overdose of Oxycodone mixed with alcohol.

Troopers say Bazinet bought the painkillers from Judson. He is due back in court when he has a lawyer.
 



 
 

Cops: Teen refused to help parents of girl who died


BY LAURA RIVERA | laura.rivera@newsday.com
June 24, 2008
As the father of Natalie Ciappa tried to breathe life into his 18-year-old daughter who lay unconscious on a couch, police said the teenage host of the house party in Seaford refused to help.

Instead, Seewoo Sung cleared away the empty bottles and beer cans strewn about the recreation room floor as he tried to hide the signs of the previous night's gathering, police said.

Police Monday arrested Sung, 19, of South Street, and charged him with tampering with physical evidence, a Class E felony. The charge carries a maximum penalty of 1 to 4 years in jail, police said.

Sung is scheduled to be arraigned Tuesday at First District Court in Hempstead. According to records, Sung was charged with assault in April 2008 and he pleaded guilty to a May 2007 assault charge. He was also charged with criminal possession of marijuana in August 2007, according to records.
At a news conference at police headquarters in Mineola Monday, Det. Sgt. Gregory Quinn of the homicide squad said Sung and Ciappa, one of at least a dozen youths who attended the party, were friends from the area.

Yet Sung did not assist Natalie's father, Victor Ciappa, when he arrived around 11 a.m. Saturday and asked for help performing CPR, Quinn said.

"We don't know what his intentions were," he said, referring to Sung. "He refused to help. He was continuing to clean up the garage and remove evidence so that the police department and his mother did not know he was having a party."

Ciappa was taken to New Island Hospital in Bethpage and pronounced dead at 11:39 a.m., police said. The cause of death is unknown at this time, police said. Detectives are awaiting the results of an autopsy and a toxicology report.

Police said they had no evidence to indicate that Sung's mother, who they believe was home on Friday night, knew a party was being held at the house. The recreation room, where the party took place, was converted from an attached garage.

Quinn asked parents of teens who went to the party to contact police.

At Plainedge High School, where Ciappa was a senior, students yesterday grappled with her death.

Ciappa planned to study criminal psychology at SUNY Old Westbury in the fall.



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Nassau County Legislator Dave Mejias (D-Farmingdale) proposed the first law of its kind in the country that would require law enforcement to notify school officials when an arrest is made for heroin possession and/or sale. It was unanimously approved by the Nassau County Legislature and signed into law Dec. 22 by County Executive Tom Suozzi. This bill will combat the growing problem of teenage heroin addiction in the suburbs by improving communication between police and school officials, stated Suozzi. Legislator Mejias' titled his legislation the "Natalie Ciappa Law" after an 18-year-old high school student from Massapequa who died of a heroin overdose at a party in June of this year.

Pictured at the signing of the Natalie Ciappa Heroin Notification Law are, seated, Nassau County Executive Thomas R. Suozzi, Natalie's mother, Doreen Ciappa. Standing are Natalie's friend, father Victor Ciappa, her brothers, Legislator Dave Mejias (D-Farmingdale), Legislator Roger Corbin (D-Westbury) Nassau County Police Commissioner Lawrence Mulvey. A poster with Natalie's image is on the easel behind the group.

"Parents and schools need a head's up on heroin use before it's too late," said Mejias. "The initial signs of heroin use are not easily detectable. This law gives everyone a fighting chance to combat this insidious epidemic. Schools notify parents when a child in their district has head lice; the county should notify schools about possible heroin use and sales in their districts."

Legislator Mejias' law went into effect immediately and requires police to notify the school district about anyone arrested in connection with heroin possession within that specific school district's boundaries or the arrest of a student from that district anywhere in the county. Private school principals would also be notified of an arrest of one of their students. Additionally, within the next 90 days, in compliance with the Natalie Ciappa Law, the police department will establish and implement a Nassau Drug Mapping Index (NDMI) website available to the public that will map arrests for possession and sale of heroin and include the nature and class of the arrest, the alleged offender's age and the date, time and location of the arrest.

Overall heroin related arrests in Nassau County have increased 50 percent since 2002. According to District Attorney's office, since 2007 there have been 37 suspected heroin overdoses in Nassau County and the New York State Office of Alcohol and Substance Abuse hospital admissions for opiate overdoses are up all across Long Island. Adding to the increased use of heroin among suburban teens is that it is cheaper than ever before-a bundle that had cost $150 in 2006 costs an average of $90 and, in some areas it's as low as $70 today. The National Drug Intelligence Center lists heroin and cocaine as the most serious drug threat in the New York area. Additionally, they say that heroin use among high school students is a particular problem with an alarming number of high school seniors in the United States using the drug at least once in their lifetime.

Legislator Mejias added, "Doreen and Victor Ciappa have taken an unspeakable tragedy - the loss of their beautiful daughter Natalie - to the public forefront to prevent their experience from happening to any other family. They should be commended for their efforts and their bravery."










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