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This Site is dedicated to the lives that were stolen away due to the actions
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Danielle Dawn McCarthy
July 18, 1990 - January 1, 2007
16 Forever
Puyallup,  WA.      Christi Nowak
February 5, 1985 - October 5, 2005
Forever 20
Georgia       Anke Furber
21 years old 
MARIETTA, Georgia 
United States
  Danielle  McCarthy        Christi Nowak      Anke Furber

Levi Joseph Wren
WA                                     Ephraim David Schultz       

  Levi  Wren                 Michael Miller                    Ephraim Schultz        

        Caitlyn Brady        Mark R Ellis Jr

JP Faulk                           Caitlyn Brady                             Mark R. Ellis Jr.

 

Sean P. Efford

Sean P. Efford

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Worldwide Candle Lighting 2008

December 14, 2008

The Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle Lighting, held annually the second Sunday in December, this year December 14 2008, unites family and friends around the globe as they light candles for one hour to honor and remember children who have died at any age from any cause. As candles are lit at 7 p.m. local time, creating a virtual wave of light, hundreds of thousands of persons commemorate and honor the memories of children in a way that transcends all ethnic, cultural, religious, and political boundaries.

Now believed to be the largest mass candle lighting on the globe, the Worldwide Candle Lighting, a gift from TCF to the bereavement community, creates a virtual 24-hour wave of light as it moves from time zone to time zone. Hundreds of formal candle lighting events are held and thousands of informal candle lightings are conducted in homes as families gather in quiet remembrance of children who have died, but will never be forgotten.

The Worldwide Candle Lighting started in the United States in 1997 as a small Internet observance but has since swelled in numbers as word has spread throughout the world of the remembrance.

The 2007 Worldwide Candle Lighting saw information on services received from 24 countries outside the United States. Joining TCF last year were chapters of several bereavement organizations including MISS, Twinless Twins, MADD, Parents of Murdered Children, and BPUSA and services were held in all 50 states plus Washington D.C. and Puerto Rico.

A  Remembrance Book is available during the event at TCF's USA national website. In that short one day span, thousands of messages are received and posted each year from every U.S. state and Washington D.C., every territory, as well as dozens of other countries. Some are in foreign languages.

Here in the United States, publicity about the event is widespread, being featured over the years in Dear Abby, Parade Magazine, Ann Landers column, Guideposts magazine, Annie’s Mailbox, and literally hundreds of U.S. newspapers, dozens of television stations, and numerous websites and personal blogs.

Please help spread the word about this tremendous event and invite anyone who is unable to attend a service to light a candle at 7 p.m. for one hour wherever they may be.

If no Worldwide Candle Lighting service was held near you in 2007, please feel free to plan one open to the public this year. As an aid in planning the service, you are welcome to use TCF's "Suggestions to Help Plan Memorial Services in Conjunction with The Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle Lighting©."

All allied bereavement organizations, churches, funeral homes, hospices and formal and informal bereavement groups are invited to join in the remembrance.  

Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle Lighting December 14 2008 7:00PM


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National Crime Victims' Rights Week
Justice for Victims. Justice for All.

April 13–19, 2008

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Each April since 1981, OVC has helped lead communities throughout the country in their observances of National Crime Victims' Rights Week (NCVRW). Rallies, candlelight vigils, and a host of commemorative activities are held each year to promote victims' rights and to honor crime victims and those who advocate on their behalf.

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Charged under a criminal statute commonly referred to as the Len Bias law, named for a former Maryland basketball star who died of a cocaine overdose.

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November 18, 2008

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Sheboygan woman charged in drug death

BY ERIC LITKE
Sheboygan Press staff

A 24-year-old Sheboygan woman was charged Tuesday with first-degree reckless homicide for allegedly giving methadone to a woman who died after overdosing on the drug.

Noel E. Tenpas, of N6115 Woodland Road, could face up to 25 years in prison, if convicted of the rarely invoked felony.

Tenpas is charged in the death of Amy L. Gockman, a 33-year-old Sheboygan woman who died early Saturday morning, police said. A criminal complaint said Tenpas brought methadone to at a home in the 2300 block of South 15th Street after she and Gockman, who were friends, talked about getting high.

Tenpas gave Gockman 60 mg of methadone — a narcotic drug used to treat withdrawal and dependence on heroin — and Gockman ingested some by using a syringe and some by mixing it with water, the complaint said. Tenpas told police she had also provided Gockman with methadone in the past, but the woman typically took a dosage of about 40 mg, the complaint said.

Methadone acts on opioid receptors in the brain, similar to heroin, and can produce many of the same effects, experts say. The complaint said Tenpas was previously on a methadone program but had quit a year ago.

Tenpas is charged under a criminal statute commonly referred to as the Len Bias law, named for a former Maryland basketball star who died of a cocaine overdose in 1986. It was passed in Wisconsin in 1989, but DeCecco said this is believed to be the first time it has been used in Sheboygan County.

“What you usually get (in fatal drug overdose cases) is no one talks about anything,” DeCecco said. “You don’t get the kind of evidence we have in this case. … We do have drug deaths in this county, but we can’t connect them up to anything.”

Richard Hahn, Tenpas’ attorney, said it is “unfair” to hold her accountable in her friend’s death.

“We all make our own decisions, and to hold someone responsible for your ingesting a controlled substance, I think, is very inequitable and unfortunate,” he said.

But DeCecco said the situation falls within the purview of the Len Bias law.

“The law says very clearly that if someone provides a controlled substance to someone who dies as a result of that, they are guilty of first-degree reckless homicide,” DeCecco said. “It’s a very clear law; it’s unambiguous.”

Tenpas told police Gockman passed out on the home’s front porch and then went in and out of consciousness as her lips turned purple, the complaint said. Tenpas called a friend, who came to the house and called 911 after seeing Gockman lying on the floor.

Emergency personnel arrived at the home about 8 p.m., and Gockman died at Aurora Sheboygan Memorial Medical Center at 3:30 a.m. after her family took her off life support, the complaint said.

Gockman, of 4221 S. 13th St., is a native of Naperville, Ill., who attended Sheboygan South High School, according to her obituary.

Court Commissioner Rebecca Persick ordered Tenpas held on a $75,000 cash bond.

“Someone is dead as an alleged result of her actions,” Persick said. “I’m very concerned about public safety in this case.”

Hahn said Tenpas does not have the money to post bond, adding she is unemployed and has a learning disability.


 

 

Tacoma, WA   Candle Lighting - 2007

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This night the world lights candles

That you may see them from above. Tonight the globe is lit by love

Of those who know great sorrow.

Jacqueline Brown Peace

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"The Last Chapters"
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Danielle and Her Family are Heroes and her Mom and Dad are helping make Heroes out of others. They are Indeed Very Special People. In their Plight and Fight for Justice of those that caused the death and stole the life of their daughter Danielle, they are busy helping others to find Justice for their Loved Ones that were Ripped away from those that truly loved them.

 

 

These are the words written by Danielle McCarthy's Mom and Dad upon realizing the Unimaginable Death of  their Precious Daughter Danielle at the hands of those she was with that night. 

 

In Loving Memory Of Danielle Dawn McCarthy

This Slide Show is dedicated to Danielle's Mom and Dad, Pat And Lisa McCarthy, To her Brothers and Sisters, and to her Extended Family and Many Friends. She is Loved and Missed By All.

 

Ria Coesel - mom of Anke Furber and DD Flynn - mom of Christi Nowak

National Night Out Against Crimes and Drugs.  Woodstock, Georgia 

 August 7, 2007

 

 

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