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Danielle cherished family, friends and life. She had her whole life planned out; her husband, number of kids, two dogs and would be a dermatologist, a career where she could help others but have time for her family.
Christi had just enrolled in college. She just began taking First Baptist Church shuttles downtown every Thursday to befriend the homeless. Just chit chatting with them and letting them know they had a friend. In her journals, she was determined to turn her life around and she started by helping others. She volunteered often for the M.U.S.T. Ministries to help set up their clothing shop for the homeless and the children's center. She helped cooked their meals. She helped do their laundry. She wanted to go into a field helping others. She would have changed at least one person's life, for the better, when they thought there was no more hope. She didn't show up last Thursday. She died.
In the months before she was killed, 21-year-old Anke Furber had been acting scared and she seemed to know she was in danger. Several days after Furber's charred remains were discovered in a small vineyard in Norcross, Anke's mom, Ria, found a note in Anke's desk at home in Marietta. In it, Anke seemed to foreshadow her own death. She wrote, "My parents would surely grieve the loss of their wonderful daughter whose craziness would soon lead to her slaughter". Ria isnt sure exactly when the note was written, but believes it was written in a close time frame to the actual murder.
At 22 years old, Levi had goals and ambitions of being a business owner, a husband and a father. He loved his family and friends with everything in him and would do anything for you. His shyness and manners we're a shining attribute to who he was. Unfortunately, Levi befriended someone who for nearly three years took advantage of his kindness and when asked to leave his home, he killed him. If he would have just walked out the door as asked, Levi would still be here today. We'll never know all the wonderful things that Levi would have accomplished, but we know he was a "Friend" till the end.
Ephraim was 21 yrs old when he prematurely transitioned to the other side. He was a very warm hearted young man. And was always available to help friends and family. As his cousin Ben said about him: "You can lay a 1,000. on the table and know completely that Ephraim would have never taken it". He spent most of his days at Antique World in Clarence , NY which was owned and operated by his Uncle. That was my sons world. A world he will no longer be able to participate in. He is sorely missed by his family and friends.
Mark suffered a brain injury at the age of 19 the night of a high school prom. Mark died at the age of 25. Life was hard for Mark, he lived an aphasic life. Mark struggled to relearn his alphabet and to speak again. Neuro rehab, drug rehab, jails, institutions and death. Mark was disabled and a fighter all at the same time. College, heavy equipment operator, volunteering were all part of these six years. Mark loved kids and wished he had one. Due to the selfish reasoning of his so called friends, Mark will never be able to achieve his dreams that he fought so hard for. Mark's struggle is over !! PEACE..........
His friends describe him as a kind, warm hearted, full of energy, always smiling, and a very silly young man. They also said that whenever Sean walked into a room that he had the ability lighting up the room because he was full of life and energy! He loved his dad, his mom, and his sister very much. He had a very special bond with his great grandma Efford and his great aunt Charlene whom also up in heaven with him. A warm hug from Sean was just another way that he showed his affection to his family and friends
When Cayte was in the middle school she was on the track team, she was a cheerleader for the Nor-Roc Vikings, she was on a soccer team, and she loved attending the dances at the Sad Cafe. When she went to high school, all of those activities stopped. The sad reason was because she was too old. All the kids have, once they reach high school, are the woods and the homes of friends when the parents are at work. If she had activities to do after school when she went to high school, maybe this wouldn't have happened.
From her birth to her passing Katty touched so many lives. Not only did her family have the joy of watching her grow from a 6 pound baby girl to a beautiful young woman, but so many others did as well. The lives she touched are too many to fathom. Her beauty and grace preceded her where ever she went. Her heart was made of fine gold and she cared for others always before herself. She was not just special to all of us but to the Lord who saw fit to call her home at such a young age. Her mansion was ready! When we think of Katty now we all can be at peace because we know she is with her Lord, never to face this harsh world we live in day to day. She is with us always when we remember her smile, her touch, and her kind words. We all had the pleasure of being touched by an ANGEL!
We want our son's name to be Remembered and to bring hope and joy out of something that has been the darkest and heartbreaking days of our families life. JP was very out spoken and we have decided to be that way on this site and to be his voice about the drug companies and the public official's that sit back and do nothing. If we could save one person from what our family had to go Through and is still going Through, it would be all worth it We will not stop until the truth gets out. We want his memory to live on.
Time has gone by so quickly and it seems like we haven't seen your face in forever. Our hearts are broken, our tears flow so freely and our souls feel empty. Michael, you left us with so many happy memories but the memories can never take your place. We know you and your uncle Sam are saving a place for those who cherished you the most.
Two weeks before he died, Chuck called me on the phone. He was excited to tell me he was joining the National Guard. He had begun to think about being a History Teacher. He planned to attend school after basic training. He also mentioned a new girlfriend. He was pretty crazy about her but wanted to give things a little more time before making her "meet the parents". Still, we made plans to meet for lunch once July wound down. He thought we might all get together and told me not to worry, he had a job and would help pay the check. The first time I met the young lady he was so crazy about was as she cried herself senseless over his casket. She laid a broken heart chain and necklace across his hands. She wore the mating half around her slender neck. Her courage in court helped to solidify the deal that sent a drug dealer to prison. I hope she, and Chuck's other friends, make the right decision and swear off drug use so we may never see their faces on these pages.
Everyone ever touched by Miranda. This will be a tribute to the life she lived. She was the most remarkable and inspirational woman I have ever known. I was in awe of my own daughter. Even as her mother, her beauty took my breath away, and as she walked this earth from her crawling stages to adulthood her beauty from the inside amazed me. Miranda loved about every living thing and each friend she had she made her relationship with them special and unique.
Jamie was a very loving son, brother, grandson, nephew, boyfriend and friend.. Most importantly he was the best father anyone could have asked for.. Even though he was only 16 when he was taken away from us from his so called friend, he did everything for his daughter and mother of his daughter  that he had asked to marry him when he turns 18.. Jamie was the type of kid that would take his shirt off his back for anyone that needs it..  Jamie died on April 23, 2008.. If only his so called friend (29 yrs old), his mother and the other people at the home called 911 instead of waiting 3 hours, he would still be here with us today.. Jamie's dad passed away Nov 2005 and he had a hard time dealing with loosing his father and could not believe he was gone.. Well now Jamie is at home with his dad..Until we meet again... I am proud of you my son..Love you always and forever, Mommy
Kaylin Marie Mathews was born on a Tuesday March 1, 1988. Kaylin was my oldest child and my only daughter. She could play the piano, guitar, and drums and loved to sing. She had been "spinning records" the last few years and loved to mix music. She had been working as a d.j. at the time of her death and was very good. Kaylin was an only child for 71/2 years. She has one brother and one sister. She was a talented writer. She made jewelry and she could draw. There was nothing that my baby couldn't do, if she wanted to. Kaylin was left to die in a ravine on June 30, 2008. She was found on July 1, 2008. Her date of death is listed as a Tuesday July 1, 2008. She was 20 years old. I miss her every second of every day. The world lost an amazing talent and an amazing young woman. I lost a part of my heart.
R.J. was truly a blessing in our lives. He was the kind of son that most parents only dream of having. He always respected and obeyed his parents and never got in trouble. RJ was never in trouble in his life RJ always called home to let us know where he was and when he would be home. When he was missing and we couldn't reach him on his cell phone, we knew immediately something terrible was wrong. This is a nightmare that no parent should have to go through and we are living it. Our concern is not what we are going through, but what our son had to go through in his final moments of life.
William Michael Grandchamp better known as Billy, was born Nov 7,1979. HE was a only child. Billy had many friends. Billy often told his friends that his MOM was his best friend. Billy liked to collect sports attire like jerseys and sports caps.Everything he wore had to match. He was meticulous with his clothing, car, and home. Although, Billy had no children of his own he loved children. He told me his greatest wish was to find a good girl and settle down and have a family. That seemed to be very important to him. Even at a young age he had a gift with children. Billy's friends have always commented on how good he was with their children and how their children loved him. Billy was loved by so many people. He had over 800 friends and family members at his wake. Billy will be greatly missed by all his family and friends.
Chase lived life spontaneously with the freedom of a butterfly – a free spirit & soul – no one could hold him down, except his baby girl. She was his LIFE. There wasn’t anything he wouldn’t do for her, including getting clean. Chase was clean 1.5 yrs, after 6 months in residential rehab in New Orleans, continued with NA meetings, substance abuse group counseling, and sought out a Navy recruiter who told him all he would have to do to be eligible. He seemed to be on his way, until he fell off the wagon 12 days out of jail. Turning to heroin again to deal with stress was the mistake of his life. “Chase’s Story” is shared with you on his main page. Thanks for taking time to read it. Sincere and heartfelt thanks to the FDLFD Family for taking us under their wings. “They will sing me to them, and I will hear.” ~RIP Chase~4evrYng~1985-2009
Katelynn Lillian Porter, 16, of West Elgin, was killed in a car crash on Dunborough Rd. in Elgin County. “In loving memory of Katelynn Porter. 12/12/09. 9:40 p.m.” is written between two hearts on the roadside memorial, a makeshift cross. Porter was a student at West Elgin secondary school, where officials are trying to come to grips with the news of her death, especially so close to Christmas.
Tony passed away 10 days after his 16th birthday. He asked permission to spend the night at his friends and I told him yes. I told him" I love you" and he replied "I love you too Mom. Tony was the kid who wanted to make everyone laugh. He had such a wonderful sense of humor and a big heart. He would talk to his friends for hours trying to help them solve their problems. He was a loving big brother, and a wonderful son. He would help you with anything without even being asked. Tony was an extremely intelligent child. He was always placed in advanced classes. A week before he passed we received a letter from Columbine informing us that Tony was nominated to participate in their advanced English Program. He had a gift for writing stories.
She loved all things technical and mechanical with her older brother Ian and fashion and decorating days with her older sister Genevieve. She loved Gothic country art, the workings of the human body, video games, driving and her new tattoo machine. She loved swimming and surfing. She loved all things living and loved her dog Timpleton and her parrot Thermopolis. She had a strong heart and soul, was an independent and progressive thinker, open minded and a will power like no one else. Her favorite place to go was Barnes and Noble.
Vivianna Satterfield was 15 years old! Vivi was the type of young lady that put other people in front of herself. She would always say "Peace and Love".
Kelli Laine Lewis is my only daughter. Kelli died when she was 18 after attending a party hosted by 3 adults who offered a $5.00 entry fee to come and drink all you wanted. A pretty tempting offer for teens not old enough to buy alcohol.
Growing up – she had it all. She was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She wShe was smart and witty - she could come up with a jovial comeback in almost any conversation or situation. She was always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing. Taylor was a huge fan of Tyler Perry’s Madea. She owned every play and knew every word to every gospel song in the plays. She would sing them at the top of her lungs to anyone that would listen. as always photographing everything and always laughing. She had an infectious laugh, loud and squeaky, but incredibly endearing.
He went out THE FIRST TIME to celebrate being "LEGAL" with a creep he considered a friend (even though we warned him this guy was not a true friend). My son did not drive so he was picked up about ten thirty. Even when it was obvious my son was having difficulties this creep brought him to his own house , which is 4 houses away for a few hours, and dropped him off here at home in the middle of the night WITHOUT KNOCKING OR CALLING OR WAKING US UP. We found Ben in his bed the next morning when we tried to wake him.

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Olympia ceremony draws support for families of murder victims

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Olympia ceremony draws support for families of murder victims

By Judy Halone-The Courier-Herald
Wednesday, October 3, 2007 4:38 PM CDT

Terrie Noble, Ron Klungess and Lew Cox each have a message for families who lave lost a loved one due to the violent act of murder: You are not alone, your loved one will never be forgotten and there is hope.

That's the message Noble took to Olympia Sept. 25, when a crowd of more than 100 gathered on the steps of the capital building for the inaugural National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims. The event took place with just three weeks' planning, said Noble, who spearheaded the event.

“I couldn't ask for it to have turned out better,” Noble said. “We had a great presence of people and law enforcement officers.”

While victims' families and friends held up pictures of loved ones, four guest speakers told about the importance of letting others know there is a network of support for family members, who are also known as co-victims, or victim survivors.

Noble - the sister of Bonney Lake councilwoman Cheryl Noble - spoke from experience; her 22-year-old son, Levi, was killed in a violent crime July 29, 2004, after a suspect turned a gun on him and fired nine times, she said. “Five of those shots were fatal,” Nobel said.

Her grief rocketed during the sentencing. “He admitted he took the perfect opportunity to kill him,” she said.

Nine months later, Noble discovered Violent Crime Victim Services, a nonprofit group in Tacoma.

“When you lose a family member to a violent crime, you're like the plague; people run from you,” she said. “I realized I needed help. There is a real benefit in that support group because everyone is understood.”

The organization was founded by Lew Cox, the father of 20-year-old Carmen, who was murdered 22 years ago. The nonprofit group holds monthly support meetings and offers emotional support through the judicial and sentencing process for co-victims.

“You have no idea that you can ever experience a pain like this,” Cox said. “It's worse than putting a vice on a broken leg.”

Both Cox and Noble turned their grief into an avenue of networking with others; Noble also became a police chaplain through the Olympia Police Department.

Co-victims run through a gamut of emotions, especially when they realize that every 25 minutes someone is murdered in America, Noble said. “That's a classroom a day,” she added.

Cox agreed. “You have no concept of a future,” he said.

Ron Klugness, a Bonney Lake resident, understands that concept. His wife, Susan, was found murdered in her home on March 2, 1996. His 14-year-old son, Jeffrey, disappeared at the same time and is listed as missing. Both incidents remain unsolved.

“Your world turns completely upside down,” Klugness said. “I stopped church. I stopped everything. I kept my depression to myself.”

Four months after Susan's death and Jeffrey's disappearance, Klugness discovered VCVS.

“I look forward to going to these meetings,” Klugness said. “At first, I didn't want to talk. But I felt pretty comfortable after awhile with these people,” he said. “But I still have good days and bad days.”

Noble said the meetings made all the difference in helping her cope.

“You will just never meet nicer people ever,” Nobel said of VCVS. “These are people who care so deeply because they've been through the pain themselves; we know the worst of hurt.”

Noble, Cox and Klugness said remembering loved ones - both through the National Day of Remembrance and frequent support meetings - are vital to the mental and emotional being of those left behind.

“There are some people who never work through their grief,” Cox said. “They feel guilty and that they don't deserve (to heal). There are others who dive right in to work through the process.

“I'd like people to be aware that if they do experience this loss, there are direct services that help support them through the bereavement process,” he said.

“These are people who care so deeply because they've been through the pain themselves,” Noble said. “They need to know they are not alone.”

Klugness agreed.

“They'd better get a support group,” Klugness said. “They think they can handle it on their own - and some of them go for years thinking they can do that- but they can't.”

“You never get over it,” Cox said. “But we're all about giving hope because we understand their pain.”

For more information, call 253-383-5254 or visit Violent Crime Victims Services' Web site at www.vcvs.org.

Judy Halone can be reached at jhalone@courierherald.com.


Terrie Noble addressed families and friends of murder victims at the ceremony that took place Sept. 25 in Olympia. The event was the first National Day of Remembrance for Murder Victims. Also in attendance were law enforcement officers. Photo courtesy Lew Cox

 

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Midland roommate feud leads to shooting

STACEY MULICK; The News Tribune

Hours after Levi Joseph Wren asked his roommate to leave his Midland home Thursday, Wren lay dead on his kitchen floor after being shot nine times.
Wren's request upset Aaron Eugene Kennedy, who told Pierce County sheriff's detectives he was "guilty of murder."

"I took the perfect opportunity and shot him," Kennedy said, according to court documents.

Pierce County prosecutors Monday charged Kennedy, 30, with first-degree murder in the death of Wren, 22.

He pleaded not guilty to the charge during a brief afternoon court hearing. Superior Court Judge Brian Tollefson ordered Kennedy held in Pierce County Jail on $750,000 bail. No attorney for Kennedy could be reached Monday.

Wren's family declined comment.

Kennedy called 911 on Thursday night and reported he shot his roommate at a home in the 10200 block of 24th Avenue East, deputies said.

According to court documents, Kennedy initially told investigators Wren "went crazy" and assaulted him while at the home of an acquaintance Thursday. On the way home, Kennedy said Wren pulled out a gun, pointed it at Kennedy's head and asked, "Are you ready to die?"

When they arrived home, Wren put a pizza in the oven. Kennedy told investigators he was going to bed when Wren again asked him if he was ready to die.

Feeling threatened, Kennedy told detectives he went to his bedroom to get his gun. He returned to the kitchen and shot Wren, court documents state.

Kennedy first told investigators he fired only after Wren had raised his own gun. Later, Kennedy said he thought Wren had a gun but instead had a knife, court documents state.

Detectives found Wren's gun, which wasn't loaded, in his bedroom closet. A knife next to his body looked like it might have been placed there, court documents state.

Wren's employer told detectives Wren had asked Kennedy to move out Thursday. Kennedy was upset because he had no car and no place to go, court documents state.

If convicted of the murder charge, Kennedy could face an enhanced penalty because a firearm was used.



Stacey Mulick: 253-597-8268
stacey.mulick@mail.tribnet.com

 

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Man arrested in death of roommate

SEATTLE POST-INTELLIGENCER STAFF

Saturday, July 31, 2004

TACOMA -- Pierce County sheriff's deputies arrested a Summit/Parkland area man in the shooting death of his 22-year-old roommate.

Deputies responded to a 911 call from the roommate at their residence, in the 10200 block of 24th Avenue East in eastern Pierce County at 11:35 p.m. Thursday. The man reported that his roommate, Levi Joseph Wren, had been shot.

After arriving and questioning the 30-year-old roommate, deputies arrested the man. According to the Pierce County Sheriff's Department, detectives believe the shooting occurred after an argument between the two men.

 

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Pierce County sheriff's deputies said Friday that a 30-year-old Midland man killed his 22-year-old roommate late Thursday after an argument.
Levi Joseph Wren was shot multiple times, sheriff's spokesman Ed Troyer said. Deputies who responded to the scene about 11:35 p.m. found Wren dead on the kitchen floor of the house in the 10200 block of 24th Avenue East.


The older man had called 911 to say his roommate had been shot, and later told detectives the incident happened after the two men had an argument. Detectives found a handgun at the scene.


Deputies arrested the man and booked him into Pierce County Jail on suspicion of second-degree murder. The News Tribune is not naming the man because he hasn't been charged with a crime.


The killing was the 24th homicide this year in the county, including Tacoma.

 

 

 

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