My Son Ephraim David Schultz was born July
19, 1983 and died May 12, 2005, from a massive overdose of
opiates, methadone and other substances. He was only 21 years
old. Before I became pregnant with him, believe it or not I had
a dream and in that dream I was told I would have a son and
should name him Ephraim. At that point in time I had never heard
of that name and when I looked it up in I discovered that in
Hebrew it means, "God has made me fruitful in the land of my
affliction." Little did I know at the time how prophetic that
would be. Ephraim was a kind, sensitive and loving young boy and
grew into a young man with a lot of promise at his fingertips.
He was a young chess champion, as well as on the junior national
honor roll. His brother and him went to private Christian
schools, then Buffalo public schools and then a Catholic
parochial school in 8th grade. There as well as in the suburbs
of Buffalo he was introduced to marijuana. From marijuana he
quickly was introduced to harder drugs in the prestigious suburb
of Buffalo called Clarence, NY where kids have enough money to
buy the drugs they want. Thus began the struggle of this
kindhearted, promising young man who was and is my son. He spent
his days and weekends at Antique World in Clarence, NY where he
loved the Pumpkin Festival and the weekend flea market. Although
quiet and polite he soon was well known throughout the market
area as always being helpful with a quick smile and hello to
everyone. He loved gardening and landscaping and worked for some
of the companies in the Clarence area. However he struggled with
depression, wanting to fit in and be accepted by his peers and
all the other issues that go along with being sensitive. On the
evening of his death he left work (he had not been feeling well
that week). He apparently went to a party in Clarence where he
was sold opiates given to a mother by a local doctor. Actually
-- two local doctors. She had no need for these medications and
hence had been giving them to her son to sell to the kids in
Clarence. A year prior this young man was arrested and when he
stood before the Judge all charges were dismissed. My son took
these drugs given to him at this party and went to his cousin's
home, that he was watching while his cousin was out of town. His
cousin's room mates, girlfriend was there and spoke to him
before he went to lay in his cousin, Benjamin's bed. There 16
hrs later he was pronounced dead. People knew something was
wrong but they didn't want to call the police because there were
pot plants in the basement. My son could have been saved but he
was not because the girl with him was afraid to get help. So he
lay in his cousins bed dying and alone. They found him on his
left side, with his hands to his nose where a profusion of blood
was expelled. His heart literaly blew up and as a result he had
what is know to Medical Examiners as a cardiac collar around his
neck and upper chest area. That day I had worked 12 hrs in a
Psychiatric hospital in NC where I practiced as an R.N. My
younger son Josiah was down in NC with me. When I arrived home
and after showering I noticed my ex husband had called me.
Within minutes I heard my younger son downstairs in the parlor
pound the table with all his might and screamed out
“NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!”I ran downstairs and thus began the nightmare
that has claimed my life. Josiah would not give me the phone
initially and kept waving me away with his hands. I thought
something had happened to his Father. I was then given the phone
and when I heard my EX Husbands voice on the other end my world
began to darken. “Tell me, I screamed”. “Tell me” Bill could
hardly speak and say the words.” Two Sheriffs came to the door
and they found Ephraim…….”, he said. I kept screaming for him to
finish. I was hysterical. When he finally said it I began
screaming “NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO”. I quickly packed my clothing
and within 45 minutes Josiah and I began the long 12 hr drive
home to Buffalo, NY. We drove right to the morgue. This was the
worst day of my life and my heart felt like it broke in two when
I heard that my older son was dead at the very young age of 21
yrs . This is a nightmare no parent should ever go through. But
I did. This is a club that I never wanted to join. But I have.
This was a nightmare that could have been prevented if his
“friends” had intervened. If there were tougher drug laws. If
the Doctors writing these scripts were held more accountable. If
there were adequate screenings prior to writing scripts for
opiates. We were unable to prosecute because the police could
not “prove” that this boy (who later bragged to people that the
drugs he sold Ephraim killed him) sold the drugs to Ephraim.
Though the kids in Clarence, NY knew he had. Our lives have been
altered in a way that we could have never envisioned, by
Ephraims death. A young life filled with promise of a bright
future ended. How many more children and adults have to die
before somebody wakes up and realizes that we have a war on
American soil? It is the war on drugs. It has killed and
destroyed more American lives than all of our so called wars on
Terrorism. The terrorists are here. They are called drugs. They
are pushed by the whore of America, the Pharmaceutical industry
as well as so called “street drugs”. When will this war end? How
many more children will die?