How my son died !

[margaret]

How can i begin to grieve for the loss of my 23 year old son. The circumstances surrounding his death has me angry and upset. He was not alone when he died someone was with him and they let him die. The so called friend of my son was a girl who came over to our house to watch t.v on March 24 2010. She was 44 my age why she was with him i don't know . She had to have brought herion to our house. The morning of march 25Th 2010 I woke up i saw her standing in the hallway and she said somethings wrong with Aaron i entered the room . I ran to his i knew he was dead there was foam vomit going all the way across the bed . I ran and got my husband he started c.p.r while i called the ambulance. Then i begged Tracey Aaron's friend to tell me if they were doing drugs she said no. The police were also at our house they took her away and gave her a drug screen she was dirty with meths and herion. Come to find out she was on felony probation so she got put in jail not because of my son's death but because of a probation violation . The police got a search warrant for her phone and it showed that the night my son died she was awake calling different people until the morning i saw her. I hope she get in trouble for this how could she just not get help for my son. I want her to pay for what she has done.

[nanajanet]

First let me tell you how sorry I am for you. I know your pain, too, as I lost my 23 year old son due to the carelessness of a supposed, good friend.

I can only say that life will happen again. It will not be the same, it will be your new normal, but you will move on. Once you can let the anger go and use that energy to fight to help others, you will be able to get through it. You never get over it, but you do get through it.

I wish that I could give you a magic pill to make it better, but I cannot. I do suggest that you find your local chapter of Compassionate Friends. It is a support group made up of people who have lost children and they helped me so much. I will keep you in my prayers.

[HurtingHoosier]

Hello:

   My heart goes out to you.  I am so sorry to hear of this. May GOD hold you in his arms and give you strength to face each day.

HurtingHoosier

[Rhiannons Mom]

Dear Margaret,
       My daughter was found dead last month so I know exactly how you feel. I will tell you this!!!! As soon as I find out HOW to fight to get justice for my daughter, I will tell you how as well. We shouldn't have to sit by and watch our childrens lives be snuffed out senselessly without a fight for their justice. I cry almost all the time but I still have to go to work and act "normal" and I'm a nurse. My emotions are all over the place so I absolutely know how you feel. Don't sit by and let them just chalk your son's death up as "another drug overdose". We'll pray to God for guidance and peace but we will become activist's for the cause.
Sincerely, Rhiannon's Mom

[HurtingHoosier]

Hello:

     This was negligence!  Find out if your state has a "Failure to render Aid" law.  If so, find an attorney who handles wrongful death cases.  Present the attorney with all reports.  Police, EMT, Hospital reports will show necessary information.  If she was the last one to see your son alive, then let the attorney know.  Also save all phone records.  I understand. my sister just lost her 22 year old son.  There was out right negligence concerning his death.  My nephew was so precious to me.  I don't understand why any parent should have to go through this.  I hope we can all help one another to bring about justice for our loved ones.  I believe if you know someone is in a life or death situation and you do nothing......
Then you should be charged with reckless homicide!  We need to push for this to become law in all states.
May GOD be with you now and always.