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North Carolina

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Danielle cherished family, friends and life. She had her whole life planned out; her husband, number of kids, two dogs and would be a dermatologist, a career where she could help others but have time for her family.
Christi had just enrolled in college. She just began taking First Baptist Church shuttles downtown every Thursday to befriend the homeless. Just chit chatting with them and letting them know they had a friend. In her journals, she was determined to turn her life around and she started by helping others. She volunteered often for the M.U.S.T. Ministries to help set up their clothing shop for the homeless and the children's center. She helped cooked their meals. She helped do their laundry. She wanted to go into a field helping others. She would have changed at least one person's life, for the better, when they thought there was no more hope. She didn't show up last Thursday. She died.
Mark suffered a brain injury at the age of 19 the night of a high school prom. Mark died at the age of 25. Life was hard for Mark, he lived an aphasic life. Mark struggled to relearn his alphabet and to speak again. Neuro rehab, drug rehab, jails, institutions and death. Mark was disabled and a fighter all at the same time. College, heavy equipment operator, volunteering were all part of these six years. Mark loved kids and wished he had one. Due to the selfish reasoning of his so called friends, Mark will never be able to achieve his dreams that he fought so hard for. Mark's struggle is over !! PEACE..........
In the months before she was killed, 21-year-old Anke Furber had been acting scared and she seemed to know she was in danger. Several days after Furber's charred remains were discovered in a small vineyard in Norcross, Anke's mom, Ria, found a note in Anke's desk at home in Marietta. In it, Anke seemed to foreshadow her own death. She wrote, "My parents would surely grieve the loss of their wonderful daughter whose craziness would soon lead to her slaughter". Ria isnt sure exactly when the note was written, but believes it was written in a close time frame to the actual murder.
At 22 years old, Levi had goals and ambitions of being a business owner, a husband and a father. He loved his family and friends with everything in him and would do anything for you. His shyness and manners we're a shining attribute to who he was. Unfortunately, Levi befriended someone who for nearly three years took advantage of his kindness and when asked to leave his home, he killed him. If he would have just walked out the door as asked, Levi would still be here today. We'll never know all the wonderful things that Levi would have accomplished, but we know he was a "Friend" till the end.
Ephraim was 21 yrs old when he prematurely transitioned to the other side. He was a very warm hearted young man. And was always available to help friends and family. As his cousin Ben said about him: "You can lay a 1,000. on the table and know completely that Ephraim would have never taken it". He spent most of his days at Antique World in Clarence , NY which was owned and operated by his Uncle. That was my sons world. A world he will no longer be able to participate in. He is sorely missed by his family and friends.
His friends describe him as a kind, warm hearted, full of energy, always smiling, and a very silly young man. They also said that whenever Sean walked into a room that he had the ability lighting up the room because he was full of life and energy! He loved his dad, his mom, and his sister very much. He had a very special bond with his great grandma Efford and his great aunt Charlene whom also up in heaven with him. A warm hug from Sean was just another way that he showed his affection to his family and friends
When Cayte was in the middle school she was on the track team, she was a cheerleader for the Nor-Roc Vikings, she was on a soccer team, and she loved attending the dances at the Sad Cafe. When she went to high school, all of those activities stopped. The sad reason was because she was too old. All the kids have, once they reach high school, are the woods and the homes of friends when the parents are at work. If she had activities to do after school when she went to high school, maybe this wouldn't have happened.
From her birth to her passing Katty touched so many lives. Not only did her family have the joy of watching her grow from a 6 pound baby girl to a beautiful young woman, but so many others did as well. The lives she touched are too many to fathom. Her beauty and grace preceded her where ever she went. Her heart was made of fine gold and she cared for others always before herself. She was not just special to all of us but to the Lord who saw fit to call her home at such a young age. Her mansion was ready! When we think of Katty now we all can be at peace because we know she is with her Lord, never to face this harsh world we live in day to day. She is with us always when we remember her smile, her touch, and her kind words. We all had the pleasure of being touched by an ANGEL!
We want our son's name to be Remembered and to bring hope and joy out of something that has been the darkest and heartbreaking days of our families life. JP was very out spoken and we have decided to be that way on this site and to be his voice about the drug companies and the public official's that sit back and do nothing. If we could save one person from what our family had to go Through and is still going Through, it would be all worth it We will not stop until the truth gets out. We want his memory to live on .
Time has gone by so quickly and it seems like we haven't seen your face in forever. Our hearts are broken, our tears flow so freely and our souls feel empty. Michael, you left us with so many happy memories but the memories can never take your place. We know you and your uncle Sam are saving a place for those who cherished you the most.
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Mother Seeks Closure in Woodstock Cold Case


Last Edited: Tuesday, 17 Jun 2008, 6:55 PM EDT
Created: Tuesday, 17 Jun 2008, 6:55 PM EDT

ATLANTA (MyFOX Atlanta) -- Woodstock police are hoping to end the nightmare for a mother whose daughter died of a drug overdose.
   
For the last 18 months the parents of Christi Nowak have been crusading against the drugs that took their daughter's life
   
Police say they will file charges against the person who gave the drugs to the girl.

Police need a lot of help in this case -- first of all they need names -- the people that Christi was with the night she overdosed.

Christi Nowak's bedroom appears just as it was two years ago before her death.

On the other side of this basement door, Christi's mother found her on the floor in a seizure.

"To be honest with you, I though it was someone on the other side of the door beating her. That's what it sounded like," said Christi's mother, D.D. Flynn.

A blood test would reveal that the 20-year-old had used cocaine and the drug GHB.

After four days in intensive care, Christi was taken off life support and died.

Two years later her mother is still seaching for answers. "I know how I brought her into this world. I don't know her last night alive. I don't know if that's what they call closure," said Flynn.

Woodstock police say they will file charges against the person who gave Christi Nowak the drugs.

"Eventually, give the right circumstances we could look at homicide charges," said Sgt. Kevin Culpepper of the Woodstock Police Department.

Christi's mother believes someone else was in her home the night of the overdose.

She says there were wooden poles and rope across Christi's legs and a cryptic message scrawled on the basement wall.

"If they would have sought help for her, called 911, even so much as ring my door bell there would have been no charges," said Flynn.

Police say an anonymous tip in this case can earn up to a $2,000 reward. You do not have to leave your name.

Call the Crimestoppers Tipline at 404-577-TIPS.

Story contents produced by FOX 5 Atlanta WAGA

 

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April 17, 2007 - Tuesday

 

CHRISTI'S STORY

The morning is Saturday, 10/1/05. It's 6:58 a.m.

A car arrives in our driveway. It's kinda loud and it's idling a bit too long.

Christi was 20 years old and came in different hours of the night and day. I assumed it was one of her friends bringing her home.

I usually look out the window to double check, but my then-8-year-old son was loving on his sleepy mommy and telling me what a wonderful mother I was. I was the BEST MOMMY, according to him. So I remained in my sleepy state, lapping up the ego trip of being such a great mom....all the while the car still idling in our driveway. I figured Christi was chit-chatting with her friends who were dropping her off...probably making plans to hook back up together.

Little did I know....while I was being loved on by one of my children, my other child was dying, all at the exact same moment. How can you have such beautiful love being sent your way, and such a tragic death occurring at the exact same moment?

Our dogs started to bark profusely. More than normal. Usually when Christi comes home, they may bark for just a second, or not at all, when they realize it's Christi. They wouldn't stop barking.

I got out of bed and looked over the loft to our downstairs foyer, thinking Christi may have locked herself out. I didn't see anybody through the window panes on either side of our front door. (When Christi would ever lock herself out, she would press her face against the window panes...giving me a "funny face".)

My husband, my son and I heard a car speeding out of our driveway.

The dogs were still barking and almost circling downstairs. Something was wrong.

I walked downstairs to see what was going on. I walked around the house, calling out Christi's name.

Through the vents in our living area, I heard banging sounds coming up from the basement. I walked downstairs to the basement and the sounds grew louder and I heard gasping and moaning.

Christi's beautiful bedroom is in 1/2 of our basement, and there is a door that leads from her bedroom to the unfinished side of the basement That door was closed. I could hear Christi moaning and banging on the other side of that door. At first I thought somebody was beating her and took a very brief second to look around her room for some kind of "baseball bat" or something to fend this "abuser" off with. My son was by my side. After realizing there was really nothing, I banged open the door leading to the unfinished side of the basement.

There was my 20 year old baby girl. My first born child who introduced me to the true meaning of unconditional love, in a full state of seizure, with a plastic air mattress on her face, poles across her legs, rope by her feet and "Help the Bitch" written on the basement wall.

I tried to get the air mattress off of her, thinking she was suffocating, but I could not remove it from her seized grip. I couldn't even see her face. I knew she needed immediate medical attention!

I could not find a phone in her room to call 911 and had to leave her alone for a few moments. I sent my my son upstairs (to the 3rd floor) to get his father to come help. I, in the meantime, called 911. It seemed like it took forever for 911 to get here.

I won't even go into some of the 911 stories here.

As soon as the transport ambulance left with my daughter, I ran upstairs, threw some clothes on and arrived at the hospital just as they had wheeled Christi into the trauma unit. I was immediately whisked away in a private room to meet with a detective and had to hand write the account of events before they would allow me to be with her.

I found out sometime later that day (or the next day...I cannot remember), that Christi had a heart attack in the ambulance and they lost her for 9 minutes.

Christi came close to a second heart attack in the trauma unit and they worked feverishly to stabilize her heart. They asked me to leave the room because I was saying, "I love you baby" over and over again and her heart was racing.

Around 3:00 that afternoon, they moved Christi to ICU, under tight security.

On 10/5/05 around 5 pm, she was pronounced legally brain dead.

The medical records indicate cocaine, GHB (date rape drug) and possible chloroform.

We donated Christi's organs. We have rec'd 2 letters from 2 of her organ recipients.

The case is still under investigation and we have some great leads. The Governor in Georgia has become involved, and the GBI and Chief of Police in our city.

We have since discovered the statute in the Georgia legal system in regards to Christi's death, Code of Georgia Annotated; Title 16. Crimes and Offences.

Crimes Against the Person; Homicide, 16-5-1. Murder

 

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